[blparent] playgrounds and climbing structures

Tue Oct 9 15:38:17 UTC 2012

Hello,

We always kept baby gates up at the bottom and top of our stair case so that
our son doesn't suffer from any serious injuries.  With this said, we also
practiced stairs a lot with him in a controlled setting and stayed right
with him so that he could learn how to go up and down safely.

Erin

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Jo
Elizabeth Pinto
Sent: Wednesday, October 03, 2012 12:00 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] playgrounds and climbing structures

I read somewhere that it's better to expose your baby to stairs and teach
him because if you don't, the first time he encounters stairs, he won't have
any idea how to navigate them and he'll be in more danger than those babies
who have learned.

Jo Elizabeth

Truth is tough. It will not break, like a bubble, at a touch; nay, you may
kick it about all day like a football, and it will be round and full at
evening.--Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.
-----Original Message-----
From: Brandy Wojcik
Sent: Wednesday, October 03, 2012 12:49 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] playgrounds and climbing structures

He is just the right age to start showing him how to go down stairs
backwards. Ladders are a bit trickier, but as he goes up and down he will
learn. Teaching him to say mommy help will also be good.

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Pickrell,
Rebecca M (TASC)
Sent: Wednesday, October 03, 2012 11:13 AM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] playgrounds and climbing structures

You know, your son won't care about this structure for some time yet. I'd
just keep him away from it until he gets the skills to play on it.
If you have access to stairs, teach him how to use them.
He's got lots of time to play on this structure.

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Ronit Ovadia Mazzoni
Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 11:01 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] playgrounds and climbing structures

Hi everyone,
Thanks for your responses. I guess I described the structure incurrectly
because there were several places with drop-offs from high locations.
Toddlers were playing on it but maybe it was not meant for toddlers. There
were only rails on certain parts of the structure, not all parts. That is
why I was nervous. My son is cautious, it's true, but he doesn't know when
not to go off a ledge or down a stair. There were many stairs and he doesn't
know how to go down stairs and he doesn't realize that he doesn't know how,
so that was also a worry of mine.

The suggestion of using my telescoping cane folded up is a good idea. I will
try that next time. I also have a leash and have started using it with him
just around our complex. I never thought of using it on the playground or
structures. I will have to try this to see if it would be a good solution, I
wouldn't want the leash part to get tangled while he was playing.

Thanks for your thoughts. I don't feel comfortable just walking alongside
this type of structure with all the openings yet, but maybe as he gets more
stable and older, I will.
Thanks.
Ronit

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Bernadetta Pracon
Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 6:50 PM
To: blparent at nfbnet.org
Subject: Re: [blparent] playgrounds and climbing structures

Ronit,
Could you possibly walk alongside the structure on one side? If this is a
toddler structure, I can't imagine that it's very tall, nor that it's not
secured with rails on either side, or something similar. It's a tough call
with newly walking toddlers, because though you want them to explore their
environment and have experiences appropriate to their age, you also want to
watch out for their safety.
I think you should stay close by and walk alongside or even around the
structure as your son explores it,  and ask an available person who might be
willing to just keep an eye on him from time to time and let you know if
anything's wrong. Climing up into the structure, while it might help you
feel at ease regarding your son's safety, it will frustrate him, like you
said, and might prohibit him from being able to establish friendships and
connections with other kids at the park.
Because, as you said, other mothers aren't in the structure with their kids,
so he might feel a little too singled out--the other kids might see that as
well. True, you have to approach things differently, and as a mother of a
small child, I completely understand your apprehension for his safety. But
sometimes, you just have to let things happen.
Blind or sighted, if parents let their kids explore and play, injuries are
bound to occur. Kids are kids. they have accidents. Yes, you might be
scrutinized more heavily as a blind parent by onlookers and such, but the
kids of sighted parents get into trouble at playgrounds too.
It's really a question of how much you are willing to let him explore and
how you'll deal with the potential of him getting injured--even slightly.
My uncle took my two year old cousin to a playground a few years ago.
He's a sighted, responsible parent. She went down a slide just a foot away
from where he stood and her arm happened to be angled a certain way, so that
while she slid down, her arm broke in two places. He wasn't really able to
do anything about preventing it short of not allowing her to go down the
slide, or personally taking her down it.
Sometimes, we just have to allow our kids a little bit of freedom, even if
they're as small as toddlers. It's important for a child's independents to
be able to explore in a presumed safe setting. I'm not saying we should
allow  or kids to roam the streets alone or take bike rides at ten o'clock
at night, but if you're at a playground and you're supervising your kid,
there's only so much you can do. Let him go and explore a little.
If you need a piece of mind, perhaps you can go to the park when there
aren't any kids around, or at least not on that particular structure, and
have someone sighted explain it to you in thorough detail. You can even go
inside of it to explore it on your own and commit it to memory, so that you
can better gauge whether  this is safe for your son to go it alone.
That's an idea.
Hope it helps.

Bernadetta

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