VIRGINIA THIS IS SO SAD TO ME. mY HUSBAND AND i ARE BOTH TOTALLY BLIND AND WE RAISED OUR SON THAT IS NOW 25 YEARS OLD SO i'M SURE YOUR ABLE TO DO THEESE THINGS THAT NEED TO BE DONE OR YOU CAN LEARN. tO CARE ENOUGH TO HAVE A CHILD WITH SOMEONE AND THEN DO THIS IS REDICULOUS. Sheila Leigland