[blparent] Update

[Anjelina Cruz]

Hi Jess,
I'm sorry to hear things have been rough for you, but I'm also happy
that you are making the decisions which are best for you and your
daughter. Giving her a loving home, being a part of her life in some
shape or form is a precious gift of a loving mother.
Thanks for sharing your update.

On 4/11/13, Jess Trask <ashleejessandmark2012 at gmail.com> wrote:
> Hi Everyone,
> I would like to take a few minutes and give you all the most recent update.
>
> My daughter Ashlee is doing wonderfully. She's almost eighteen months old
> now.
>
> However I wish I could say the same thing about the relationship between
> her father and I.  Everything. between him and I had been right since  May
> of last year. And, it all ended right before the first of the year. We were
> doing fine with the visits and everything. With the two major problems with
> him not going to counseling and also he was extremely unwillingly to meet
> with CSPW working on our case. He is a at least now working with her
> supervisor but still unwillingly to when do that.
>
> We had all our visits including one on Christmas Eve which was a Monday
> visit. However, we didn't have a visit that Thursday because of a
> snowstorm. Which he always managed to blame me when our visits were
> cancelled.  This time he's pissed off because we don't have the visit so I
> did what I thought I right and left because I anticapted that night before
> that the visit would be cancelled. So I left the apartment where we were
> living because I knew that he needed his space to calm down. One of me and
> one my friends when back because he asked me to come back and do some
> cleaning around the house. But, He slapped across the face. Me and friend
> felt we all left together had a nice few hours at peer support center
> that I still go occasionally. I left this peer support center because I an
> appointment at a local domestic violence agency to talk with one of their
> advocates. The referral for me to go through this agency has made the CPSW
> working on the now an adoption plan for my daughter.
>
> So while I've been dealing with the DCYF case I'm now also going through
> the court system again because I place a Domestic Violence charge on my ex.
>
> My DCYF case will be over as of next week because I've decided to Surrender
> my parental rights voluntary instead of going the Termination of Parental
> Rights I've almost already been dealing with the state for two years. And,
> there would be a trail. The termination process would have taken a while.
>
> I know that I doing the right thing by surrendering my rights because I
> know she's being well taken care of. And, if she has any other problems
> that occur later in life that the foster family is better equipped to deal
> with it. I've been lucky that she's stayed with the same foster family for
> the last year and half.
>
> Ashlee is doing wonderfully she just had her eighteen month well child
> check today. She's very healthy. She's small for her age  which is okay.
> She's doing great developmental now she's almost in normal rages for her
> age. Which is a big deal because she's been about three months or so behind
> up until now.
>
> After I surrender my rights I will be able to still be involved in her life
> which is awesome because we've decided from the beginning that it would be
> an open adoption.
>
> Jess Trask
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-- 
Anjelina