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Well, that was the thing, too.  I wanted to learn my way around the joint, 
state my basic wishes, and meet the staff while I was clear-headed and not 
dealing with contractions.  I had an IV eventually, only because I gave up 
and lost the argument against one, but I made them put it on a pole with 
wheels because I insisted on walking the halls till I was seven or eight 
centimeters along. That shocked the nurses because I guess most women don't 
want to move by that time.  But I found that walking was a lot more 
comfortable than lying still, so I earned this reputation as the tough blind 
chick who wouldn't stay in bed.  I heard them laughing about it while the 
dad and I were on the long march, so I joined in with the laughter because 
it was better than snapping at them.

Anyway, when I fell, they finally wouldn't let me walk anymore, so they gave 
me this laboring chair which was made out of some kind of bouncy, springy 
material so I could rock and move.  It was pretty good, the next best thing 
to staying on my feet.  They said they would have grounded a sighted mom who 
fell, too, for liability reasons.  So my point is, not everything is done 
because of our blindness, which is easy to assume.  Actually, the only one 
who asked me about help at home was the head doctor, and I couldn't say much 
with him elbow deep where no man ought to be.  So I just said, "Mmm hmmm, 
it's all covered," and hoped he would finish up soon.

Jo Elizabeth

Truth is tough. It will not break, like a bubble, at a touch; nay, you may 
kick it about all day like a football, and it will be round and full at 
evening.--Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.
-----Original Message----- 
From: Jennifer Stewart Jackson
Sent: Thursday, January 09, 2014 2:29 PM
To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
Subject: Re: [blparent] new to the list

Congratulations on your new baby. Really what people are suggesting here are
things that are just as you would want to do to provide for your child and a
good birth experience. We are just suggesting you document it so if
something unfortunate happens, you will know where to start.

Go to the birth center, or whatever, just because you do not want to be
talking about your blindness and any special needs while you are in labor.
:) I always went to share ahead of time the horrifying news that I did not
intend to have an IV and preferred not to be offered any drugs. :) The up
side was that the staff was generally more interested in that than my
blindness.

Jennifer
-----Original Message-----
From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Star Gazer
Sent: Thursday, January 09, 2014 3:23 PM
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Hi. I'm 34 weeks pregnant with our second baby.
You do a couple of things. First, you take care of yourself during the
pregnancy, it shows you care about yourself and about the baby.
Second, you go to the hospital and talk with the staff. Your obgyn or
midwife can help you find the right people, level with them and express your
concerns.
You can take the classes the hospitals offer. You don't have to though. We
didn't, and the hospital seems fine.

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Tara Briggs
Sent: Thursday, January 9, 2014 2:04 PM
To: Blind Parents Mailing List
Subject: Re: [blparent] new to the list

Thanks! I have a couple of questions. How didyou make sure the staff at the
hospital had a positive attitude about you having a baby? I guess sadly
getting a baby taken away is a concern of lots of disabled parents.
Tara

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Jo
Elizabeth Pinto
Sent: Thursday, January 09, 2014 11:53 AM
To: Blind Parents Mailing List
Subject: Re: [blparent] new to the list

Congratulations on your coming baby!

Jo Elizabeth

Truth is tough. It will not break, like a bubble, at a touch; nay, you may
kick it about all day like a football, and it will be round and full at
evening.--Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.
-----Original Message-----
From: Tara Briggs
Sent: Thursday, January 09, 2014 8:51 AM
To: blparent at nfbnet.org
Subject: [blparent] new to the list

HI all, I have been on this list for a few days now and figure it is time to
introduce myself. I am Tara Briggs and I live in Utah with my husband.
I teach Braille at the center for the blind. I use a Seeing Eye dog named
Emmy and I think they don't make them any better than my beautiful black
lab. My husband works at Brigham Young University in there accessibility
center. He helps students get access to their books in an accessible format
and oversees their assistive technology lab. Tyler is also finishing a
master's degree in  Vocational rehabilitation. He graduates this May and we
are both over the moon about it!

I am 12 weeks pregnant with our first baby! I am sure I will have loads of
questions but I just thought I would by start off by saying hello.

Thanks

Tara
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