[blparent] child support

Kimsan kimsansong at aol.com
Fri Jan 10 04:15:20 UTC 2014 

Gabe, I planned on calling you Saturday after I complete my training session
with my client, which will be about 2:00.
Maybe by then, what I am nervous about will blow up in my face by that time
lol. I'll explain everything Saturday, so have a beer, smoke or coffee ready
as I will be rambling haha.
-----Original Message-----
From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Gabe Vega
Sent: Thursday, January 9, 2014 7:34 PM
To: nfb blind parent blindparent
Subject: Re: [blparent] child support

I am here if you need to chat bud, I've been through it all. a california
court case lating over 2 years and have successfully been raising my
daughter for 7 years and my youngest daughter now for about 8 months on my
own. if you need a chat with some one who has been through what you been
through minus one child I am here to talk.
Gabe Vega
CEO
Commtech LLC
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On Jan 9, 2014, at 5:00 PM, Kimsan <kimsansong at aol.com> wrote:

> I am not sure if one will view this as me being selfish or what the 
> perception might be but here it is...
> My x-wife, when she left, her words were "I don't need a man, I don't 
> need your money, I will do it all on my own."  However, things changed 
> after the divorce was finalized, and she was ordered to pay me child 
> support.  She told me, I will not send you the required monthly 
> payment and I will only send money when the kids needed something.  
> With her new found love and life, I thought I was in the clear and I 
> began rebuilding and now I am finally up to speed and the girls are 
> emotionally stable.  It was a tough road but we gotter done.
> 		I am entitled child support, but instead of dealing with her

> excuses, I thought the hell with it and I will hussle to make the 
> money myself, which I have not had any issues for several months now.  
> Some excuses were,"if I have to pay $200 a month based on what I am 
> making, I will not be able to support myself, or have money to go see the
girls."
> This is not me bashing, but my x is a mess, and with me living right 
> across the street from her parents, great people by the way, but let's 
> just say that the apple does not fall far from the tree.  A new 
> development just occurred, and I have a new possible battle coming up 
> within 24-hours.  I will not disclose the details, unless people want 
> to know, and hey, based on the circumstances, the possible solutions 
> might be helpful.  I'm real nervous right now...
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of 
> Jennifer Stewart Jackson
> Sent: Thursday, January 9, 2014 2:57 PM
> To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
> Subject: Re: [blparent] blindparent REparents just don't understand
> 
> I agree with Rebecca on this child support issue. There are things you 
> will not be able to pay for otherwise and that is true of any parent. 
> Believe me it was a big help when my kids Dad came up with the $500 we 
> plopped down at the beginning of this wrestling season, and wrestling 
> is one of the cheaper activities. Gymnastics or dance will run about 
> $100 a month per kid and musical instruments are not cheap. . Your 
> daughters are going to have more expenses as they age and their mother
owes them these opportunities.
> 
> I do not want to pry into your family business, so please just 
> consider what I am about to ad and do not feel you have to share 
> details with us. I know that sometimes a parent gives up pursuing 
> child support to protect a child or children from a bad situation with 
> the other parent. Perhaps involving drugs or some other abuse. That is 
> completely different and obviously more important than the reasons I gave
for pursuing child support.
> 
> 
> 
> Jennifer
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Star 
> Gazer
> Sent: Thursday, January 09, 2014 4:01 PM
> To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
> Subject: Re: [blparent] blindparent REparents just don't understand
> 
> Really, I'd get child support (unless you are trying to avoid paying 
> it??) as it's to bennifit your children. You're legally entitled to it 
> and unless all you'd be getting $10 a month or so, it would help your
budget.
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of 
> Kimsan
> Sent: Thursday, January 9, 2014 2:42 PM
> To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
> Subject: Re: [blparent] blindparent REparents just don't understand
> 
> Yes, we have the city bus, the door-to-door service, but they are not 
> the greatest as they have gotten me to appointments late more than once.
> The cab, there is a 15 dollar boarding fee and I can't remember how 
> much it would've been per-mile.  In short, nothing I could've make fit in
my budget.
> I'm trying to stay away from child support as that will open up a 
> whole new can of worms lol, and I hate worms..
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Jo 
> Elizabeth Pinto
> Sent: Thursday, January 9, 2014 11:34 AM
> To: Blind Parents Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [blparent] blindparent REparents just don't understand
> 
> Do you have paratransit?  How expensive are cabs, just for rainy days?
> 
> 
> 
> 
> Jo Elizabeth
> 
> Truth is tough. It will not break, like a bubble, at a touch; nay, you 
> may kick it about all day like a football, and it will be round and 
> full at evening.--Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Kimsan
> Sent: Thursday, January 09, 2014 12:07 PM
> To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
> Subject: Re: [blparent] blindparent REparents just don't understand
> 
> No worries. I didn't think you were trying to betlittle me.
> I should've chosen my words carefully, what I tried to say was that I 
> am not the only blind person experiencing what I went through and am 
> currently going through.
> As I write this, I am in the process in making calls to see about what 
> "good survices" there are here for the blind. Public transportation 
> sucks and with my busy schedule, I need to figure out how to make things
happen.
> My main issue is transportation and the ability to get from one place 
> to another in a timely manner.  Yes, we can debate about taking the 
> buss, but time isn't in my favor lol.
> For example, I get off of work at 2:30, dr appointment is at 3:20, it 
> takes me about 30-minutes to walk from my job to their school, then 
> another 20-minutes to 30-minutes to get to the doctor's office.  Plus, 
> mother nature is not in a good mood today, but I will make it happen! 
> I was single before and made it lol.
> 
> 
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