[blparent] child support

[Gabe Vega]

I am here if you need to chat bud, I've been through it all. a california court case lating over 2 years and have successfully been raising my daughter for 7 years and my youngest daughter now for about 8 months on my own. if you need a chat with some one who has been through what you been through minus one child I am here to talk.
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On Jan 9, 2014, at 5:00 PM, Kimsan <kimsansong at aol.com> wrote:

> I am not sure if one will view this as me being selfish or what the
> perception might be but here it is...
> My x-wife, when she left, her words were "I don't need a man, I don't need
> your money, I will do it all on my own."  However, things changed after the
> divorce was finalized, and she was ordered to pay me child support.  She
> told me, I will not send you the required monthly payment and I will only
> send money when the kids needed something.  With her new found love and
> life, I thought I was in the clear and I began rebuilding and now I am
> finally up to speed and the girls are emotionally stable.  It was a tough
> road but we gotter done.
> 		I am entitled child support, but instead of dealing with her
> excuses, I thought the hell with it and I will hussle to make the money
> myself, which I have not had any issues for several months now.  Some
> excuses were,"if I have to pay $200 a month based on what I am making, I
> will not be able to support myself, or have money to go see the girls." 
> This is not me bashing, but my x is a mess, and with me living right across
> the street from her parents, great people by the way, but let's just say
> that the apple does not fall far from the tree.  A new development just
> occurred, and I have a new possible battle coming up within 24-hours.  I
> will not disclose the details, unless people want to know, and hey, based on
> the circumstances, the possible solutions might be helpful.  I'm real
> nervous right now...
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Jennifer
> Stewart Jackson
> Sent: Thursday, January 9, 2014 2:57 PM
> To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
> Subject: Re: [blparent] blindparent REparents just don't understand
> 
> I agree with Rebecca on this child support issue. There are things you will
> not be able to pay for otherwise and that is true of any parent. Believe me
> it was a big help when my kids Dad came up with the $500 we plopped down at
> the beginning of this wrestling season, and wrestling is one of the cheaper
> activities. Gymnastics or dance will run about $100 a month per kid and
> musical instruments are not cheap. . Your daughters are going to have more
> expenses as they age and their mother owes them these opportunities.
> 
> I do not want to pry into your family business, so please just consider what
> I am about to ad and do not feel you have to share details with us. I know
> that sometimes a parent gives up pursuing child support to protect a child
> or children from a bad situation with the other parent. Perhaps involving
> drugs or some other abuse. That is completely different and obviously more
> important than the reasons I gave for pursuing child support.
> 
> 
> 
> Jennifer
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Star Gazer
> Sent: Thursday, January 09, 2014 4:01 PM
> To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
> Subject: Re: [blparent] blindparent REparents just don't understand
> 
> Really, I'd get child support (unless you are trying to avoid paying it??)
> as it's to bennifit your children. You're legally entitled to it and unless
> all you'd be getting $10 a month or so, it would help your budget.
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Kimsan
> Sent: Thursday, January 9, 2014 2:42 PM
> To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
> Subject: Re: [blparent] blindparent REparents just don't understand
> 
> Yes, we have the city bus, the door-to-door service, but they are not the
> greatest as they have gotten me to appointments late more than once.
> The cab, there is a 15 dollar boarding fee and I can't remember how much it
> would've been per-mile.  In short, nothing I could've make fit in my budget.
> I'm trying to stay away from child support as that will open up a whole new
> can of worms lol, and I hate worms..
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Jo
> Elizabeth Pinto
> Sent: Thursday, January 9, 2014 11:34 AM
> To: Blind Parents Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [blparent] blindparent REparents just don't understand
> 
> Do you have paratransit?  How expensive are cabs, just for rainy days?
> 
> 
> 
> 
> Jo Elizabeth
> 
> Truth is tough. It will not break, like a bubble, at a touch; nay, you may
> kick it about all day like a football, and it will be round and full at
> evening.--Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Kimsan
> Sent: Thursday, January 09, 2014 12:07 PM
> To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
> Subject: Re: [blparent] blindparent REparents just don't understand
> 
> No worries. I didn't think you were trying to betlittle me.
> I should've chosen my words carefully, what I tried to say was that I am not
> the only blind person experiencing what I went through and am currently
> going through.
> As I write this, I am in the process in making calls to see about what "good
> survices" there are here for the blind. Public transportation sucks and with
> my busy schedule, I need to figure out how to make things happen.
> My main issue is transportation and the ability to get from one place to
> another in a timely manner.  Yes, we can debate about taking the buss, but
> time isn't in my favor lol.
> For example, I get off of work at 2:30, dr appointment is at 3:20, it takes
> me about 30-minutes to walk from my job to their school, then another
> 20-minutes to 30-minutes to get to the doctor's office.  Plus, mother nature
> is not in a good mood today, but I will make it happen! I was single before
> and made it lol.
> 
> 
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