[blparent] My Daughter

[Rob Kaiser]

Hello all:

This email may be quite long, and I appologize for this:

As many of you know, I have a guardian daughter, Breann. At this time, she is staying with her mom in Orange. I am currently living in Moreno Valley, CA. Over a week ago, I spoke with Breann’s teacher for the first time ina long time. I was told that her grades are really slipping from As & Bs to Cs and Ds. There has also been behavioral problems with Breann. I told my X-wife that I would like to bring Breann up to Moreno Valley on a weeken. for some reason My X-wife Pat, doesn’t want to let me do that. She told me that if I want to see Breann, I can come down to her house in Orange. Because of the poor atransportation (public, pera and Metro link) on the week ends, and that would be the best time for me to spend quality time with Breann, it is next to impossible for me to get down there on the weekends unless my fiance, Sarah is available to drive me down there. I have every right to have Breann. I am still her legal Guardian. I am tempted to give Pat an altimadum, and tell her that I can come down on a Friday and get her and bring her up here until Sunday evening or very early Monday morning on the train. If she won’t comply, I am thinking about comeing down there with the police and a coppy of the guardian ship papers. I don’t want to get the police involed, but I might not have a choice in this. Has anyone else had a situation like this? 

I also feel that Pat (with her poor health) and with my step son, Jesse who use to do everything for Pat (get Pats’ meds, clean the house go to the grocery store ETC.) Now, I have a feeling that Breann (who just turned 11) is now going to have to do all of these things. Breann (as I just wrote) is only 11 years old. I’m afraid that she (like Jesse) will not have a normal child hood. I really want to get Breann out of there amicably, but I don’t think that will happen. I really could use some sugestions on this matter. 

Thankss to anyone who can help me on this. 


Rob Kaiser 
email;
rcubfank at sbcglobal.net