[blparent] My Daughter

[Jo Elizabeth Pinto]

Michael is right.  We would need to know more about your custody agreement. 
Busting in there with the police is not usually a great way to go about 
things, if the police would even oblige you.  What you need to do is take 
your custody agreement to someone who deals in family law and go from there. 
Maybe you can find a legal practice that works on a sliding scale, if 
finances are a problem.  Have you spoken to Brianne about this, asked her if 
she has an unfair burden of household chores?  If not, talk to her, but 
don't put that idea in her head before she tells you about it.  Let her tell 
you how she feels, what she would want her summer to look like as far as a 
time split between you and her mom.

Jo Elizabeth

Truth is tough. It will not break, like a bubble, at a touch; nay, you may 
kick it about all day like a football, and it will be round and full at 
evening.--Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.
-----Original Message----- 
From: Michael Baldwin via blparent
Sent: Sunday, May 10, 2015 8:52 AM
To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
Cc: Michael Baldwin
Subject: Re: [blparent] My Daughter

What legal rights for Brianne does your X have? If you and her both have
legal custody of Brianne, with no set rules about who gets her when, I doubt
the police would do anything.
If you have sole custody of your daughter, then I think you're a fool for
letting her down there, away from you.

Michael

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Rob Kaiser
via blparent
Sent: Saturday, May 09, 2015 9:24 PM
To: Blind Parents Mailing List
Cc: Rob Kaiser
Subject: [blparent] My Daughter

Hello all:

This email may be quite long, and I appologize for this:

As many of you know, I have a guardian daughter, Breann. At this time, she
is staying with her mom in Orange. I am currently living in Moreno Valley,
CA. Over a week ago, I spoke with Breann's teacher for the first time ina
long time. I was told that her grades are really slipping from As & Bs to Cs
and Ds. There has also been behavioral problems with Breann. I told my
X-wife that I would like to bring Breann up to Moreno Valley on a weeken.
for some reason My X-wife Pat, doesn't want to let me do that. She told me
that if I want to see Breann, I can come down to her house in Orange.
Because of the poor atransportation (public, pera and Metro link) on the
week ends, and that would be the best time for me to spend quality time with
Breann, it is next to impossible for me to get down there on the weekends
unless my fiance, Sarah is available to drive me down there. I have every
right to have Breann. I am still her legal Guardian. I am tempted to give
Pat an altimadum, and tell her that I can come down on a Friday and get her
and bring her up here until Sunday evening or very early Monday morning on
the train. If she won't comply, I am thinking about comeing down there with
the police and a coppy of the guardian ship papers. I don't want to get the
police involed, but I might not have a choice in this. Has anyone else had a
situation like this?

I also feel that Pat (with her poor health) and with my step son, Jesse who
use to do everything for Pat (get Pats' meds, clean the house go to the
grocery store ETC.) Now, I have a feeling that Breann (who just turned 11)
is now going to have to do all of these things. Breann (as I just wrote) is
only 11 years old. I'm afraid that she (like Jesse) will not have a normal
child hood. I really want to get Breann out of there amicably, but I don't
think that will happen. I really could use some sugestions on this matter.

Thankss to anyone who can help me on this.


Rob Kaiser
email;
rcubfank at sbcglobal.net
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