[blparent] behavior problems with our 4 year old

[Jodie and Kahlan]

Judy, Chris's father was in the military too. He and Chris's mom 
watched her over night when Chris and I went out of town for a 
conference. We had to leave the house at six in the morning, so her 
grandparents picked her up Wednesday night and she went to Head Start 
from their house. When her grandpa brought her home, he said they would 
not be able to watch her again until her attitude was adjusted. She 
threw her glasses and then became defiant when they tried to discipline 
her for it. She refused the time-out and made it clear that she didn't 
like them telling her no she couldn't throw her glasses. I know 
military families expect good behavior, and so do we, and that was when 
we knew we needed help. When her own grandparents don't want to watch 
her, something is wrong.