[blParent] Attaching a bell to a crawling baby

[Dianna Alley]

I personally do not and will not ever put bells or leashes on any kid, but to each their own.  No, I have never stepped on my child by accident either.  I saw a sighted person with a leash and that even scared my kid.  I told her I could not say anything to the parent because it is not my job, but she won't have to be in that situation again.  I do not think children need bells and leashes because they are not dogs or cats, but that is just me.  I have asked for help watching when she was little if it was around, but if not I used my ears.  After all, they usually tell on themselves by getting real quiet.  They even do it when they are babies.  A good rule of thumb is if your child is quieter than usual you might wish to look for them.

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From: BlParent <blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org> On Behalf Of Dacia Cole via BlParent
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Subject: Re: [blParent] Attaching a bell to a crawling baby

My only concern about using a bracelet of bells on their wrist or ankle  is that they are more likely to put them in their mouth which could lead to them choking on them. If they are pinned to their clothing, it is much harder for them to get a hold of them. As for having someone always watching where they are, I don’t believe that is necessary. As others have stated, just walk carefully, and yes, you might touch them with your foot or accidentally lightly step on them, but every parent, even cited parents step on or accidentally trip over their children, because, they like to get under foot.

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> On Oct 30, 2019, at 8:27 PM, sheila leigland via BlParent <blparent at nfbnet.org> wrote:
> 
> When my son was a baby it would have been imposible to have a sighted 
> person always around when he was not in a playpen crib or swing. Our 
> pediatrician was wonderful and reminded me that Mark needed the 
> freedom to explore his surroundings and that he couldn't and shouldn't 
> be kept in a secluded emviornment. We developed age appropriate 
> guidelines and trudsted ourselves to keep him safe. I'm  not saying 
> din
> 
> t seep the baby safe but allow him to grow and trust yourselves to be capable parents. My husband and I are totally blind and it can be done and done well.
> 
>> On 10/29/2019 2:31 PM, Tony Malykh via BlParent wrote:
>> Sharon,
>> 
>> Has it ever happened to you that you kicked your son accidentally while walking?
>> 
>> Right now we try to have pretty strict rules in our home to always have a sighted adult watching over the baby and letting me and my wife know every time the baby crawls out of the playmat. But it actually requires a lot of energy to always keep thinking where is baby right now. So I'm thinking about relaxing the rules and I'm curious how safe it would be if we let the baby crawl wherever he wants and we just follow your advice to walk carefully.
>> 
>> And I guess, even if I kick the baby, that wouldn't do much harm (relatively), but I'm more worried about tripping over and falling on him.
>> 
>>> On 10/28/2019 11:19 AM, Sharon Howerton via BlParent wrote:
>>> Tony, one of my students said they used to pin a bell to the back of 
>>> their son's shirt so he couldn't get it off. When my sons were 
>>> young, and they are now in their 30's, I just learned to walk very carefully!
>>> Best of luck!
>>> Sharon
>>> 
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>>> From: BlParent <blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org> On Behalf Of Tony 
>>> Malykh via BlParent
>>> Sent: Monday, October 28, 2019 12:30 PM
>>> To: blparent at nfbnet.org
>>> Cc: Tony Malykh <anton.malykh at gmail.com>
>>> Subject: [blParent] Attaching a bell to a crawling baby
>>> 
>>> Hello all,
>>> Our baby has started to crawl around the house, and in order not to 
>>> trip over him, we'd like to attach a bell to him.
>>> Where is the best place to attach the bell, and how can we attach it?
>>> Safety pins come to mind, but I wanted to check if there are any 
>>> better suggestions.
>>> And also, are there any other solutions to this problem? Like maybe 
>>> there is a smart electronic device that only beeps when blind 
>>> parents are approaching...
>>> 
>>> Thanks!
>>> Tony
>>> 
>>> 
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