[Faith-talk] faith talk: churches and socialization

[Poppa Bear]

Unfortunattly churches can be like any other social organisation, many of 
the groups with in the church are brought together through common intrests 
that have nothing to do with being a Christian. At our Church we have alot 
of milatary, outdoorsmen and traditional stay at home moms, but within all 
of that we have everything else, but if you were a real fishermen kind of 
guy with a bunch of knowledge about camping, or served in the milatary you 
would probably have so many invatations to fellowship that you wouldn't know 
what to do. The point of this observation is to point out that not all 
Churches have the groups of people that we can relate to so much, 
unfortunatly. I knew a guy who was put out by a church after a couple years 
because he never made any in roads, but after asking alot of questions I 
came to find out that that church was comprised of families who had known 
one another for many generations and had deep ties to one another when it 
came to memmories, holiday traditions and so on, on top of that, they were 
all white outdoorsy folks who hunted and fished and he was a small middle 
age asian guy who was more or less looking for a wife when it came down to 
it. For what ever reason he wanted to be excepted at that church and no 
other church and it caused him to go into a terrible depression.
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Maureen Pranghofer" <maureensmusic at comcast.net>
To: "Faith-talk,for the discussion of faith and religion" 
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Sent: Wednesday, December 18, 2013 6:15 AM
Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] faith talk: churches and socialization


> Hi
> You said >
> no one will invite me over to their place for a meal and some good
> conversation. > and I changed the subject line here because honestly I 
> don't think it's all about blindness.  I just heard bemoanings from a good 
> friend who has no disabilities complaining that people are social in 
> church but not at all outside of church.  She noted that if she doesn't 
> come to church for a week or two when she comes they tell her how much 
> they miss her.  But if they missed her why didn't they call or email?  Why 
> was there never a note? Why are there never any social invites?
> And a friend of mine joined a church hoping for some socialization and 
> found that people go to church, greet each other warmly afterward and then 
> leave. As the body of Christ we need to be with each other other then when 
> we are in the church building.
> Maureen
>
>
> -----Original Message----- 
> From: Paul
> Sent: Tuesday, December 17, 2013 8:02 PM
> To: Faith-talk,for the discussion of faith and religion
> Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] being healed from blindness
>
> I've an answer to this problem about the church pitying us because of our
> blindness, and I read this statement many years ago in a book about blind
> welfare from the RNIB.  The main reason, as I and the author of the book 
> see
> it, is that there is yet no practical substitution to the human eye.  For
> some deaf and hard of hearing people there is the cochlear implant and for
> people who have lost limbs or arms there are artificial ones which, 
> although
> naturally not like the originals in their totality, nevertheless work to
> some extent.  Unfortunately even in my church, even though they don't pity
> me, no one will invite me over to their place for a meal and some good
> conversation.  This happened after our Thanksgiving Day service, and I 
> pray
> it won't happen after Christmas Day services either.  Hope that was an
> adequate explanation.  Paul
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "RJ Sandefur" <joltingjacksandefur at gmail.com>
> To: "Faith-talk,for the discussion of faith and religion"
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> Sent: Tuesday, December 17, 2013 7:53 PM
> Subject: [Faith-talk] being healed from blindness
>
>
>> Dear list, First, as someone wi!th a doctorate in theology, I must say 
>> I've not seen anywhere in scripture Christ refur to blindness as 
>> something to be looked upon as evil, and yet, the church tens to pity us. 
>> I've not seen this in my own church thank the Lord, but I know some of 
>> you have. God allowed to be blind, and I don't need some faulse teacher 
>> to tell me to claim my healing, just so they can bum money off me
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