[Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?

[Doris and Chris]

If Chris and I ever separated, it would be so the other had their 
freedom and lack of problems.

IN Christ,

Doris




At 03:11 PM 2014/01/27 +0200, you wrote:
>Dear all, peace be with you.
>
>Today I am going to talk about a subject which is not my favorit at all.
>
>Yes, it is a subject that I would not usually bring up into 
>discussion but, I just felt the grave necessaty to do so.
>
>There are many familys living in precarious  conditions right now.
>
>We are constantly defined by who we are, but recently, we are 
>redefined  by who we are not.
>
>It is a major challenge at presently to maintain your relationship 
>ties, and believe it or not, it is worsening on a regular basis, and 
>particularly here in Egypt.
>
>It truly exasperates me when I hear about freshly espoused couples 
>split up for preposterous reasons.
>
>I woke up earlier this morning asking myself;
>
>Why divorce occurs?
>Why it occurs on that terrific stage, terrific amount.
>
>We ought to take the subject quite seriously.
>
>We have to recognize that we are living in a delusional state of 
>affectional phase.
>
>People talk about warmly romantic love stories but, why many of 
>these love stories end up into enormous grievances.
>
>There must be a reason for that.
>
>Well, I am still asking the question, why divorce occurs?
>
>There are miscellaneous causes for spousal disassociations.
>
>Well amongst them are as namely.
>
>Children custody, desertions, betrayals, revilements, mental or 
>physical violence, indigence, and miscommunications.
>
>We have got serious problems here.
>
>     The vast majority of dissolution  cases are belonged to the 
> category of perfidious incidents, alleged allegations of unfaithful 
> involvements.
>
>Why there are too many cheating spouses today?
>
>The divorce rate curves so highly into threatening state here in 
>Egypt, but I am sure that other countries are not much better.
>
>It critically saddens me but, what are the reasons for all of these 
>divorcements to occur.
>
>There are many reasons to begin with, and there are sequential 
>reasons which leads to the grieved destiny.
>
>The chief cause of spousal disassociations in my opinion, is the trust loss.
>
>Anything could be solved within a relationship, but not the trust loss.
>
>It leads to the buttom of the line, and it incites endless disputes.
>
>How mistrust occurs?
>
>It often occurs when the spouse is   caught up lying on multiple occasions.
>
>That leads to numerous arguments, which consequentially leads to 
>permanent divorcement.
>
>The second chief cause of spousal disassociations is when the man 
>tends to periodically disrespect his wife, or when he deliberately 
>denigrates her opinion in public platform.
>
>This is commonly practiced by men, and particularly, here in the middle east.
>
>   I personally have witnessed that being done.
>
>I am not sure of the justification which these men have.
>
>Well, within Islam, there is no justification of looking down on the 
>woman, even if she slips up.
>
>The man ought to adhere the disposal of chivalry towards his wife, 
>even in the times of misbehavior, he has no right what so ever to 
>humiliate her, and particularly in public.
>
>      There is a radical misconception of this cultural complex of 
> what Islam teaches, and what that has incorrectly been derived 
> because of grave ignorance and disinformation.
>
>
>I watch on Egyptian drama which features that disappointing 
>symbolism, it portrays men as dominants on women, giving the notion 
>that it is brought by Islamic tradition.
>
>Well, that is just silly and nonsense.
>
>Islam decisively summons onto the fact that men have to take care of 
>their wives, and it woes any attempts of aggression.
>
>Well, this editorial has a continual segment, so watch out for that.
>
>Until I render the second part of this essay, stay blessedly in the 
>grace of Allah, and peace be with you.
>
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