[Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?

[Poppa Bear]

What? Don't forget, God says he hates divorce. Just Google that simple 
question, "Does God hate divorce" Then consider how your statement may fitt 
into God's view. I am sorry if I am sounding harsh or condisending, but I 
have heard so many people justify divorce and have counceled quite a few 
young couples and have heard so many twists and takes on why one or both 
think they should start over. Well, I hope you and yours are together untill 
death do you part.
In His grip
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Doris and Chris" <chipmunks at gmx.net>
To: "Faith-talk,for the discussion of faith and religion" 
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Sent: Monday, January 27, 2014 6:39 AM
Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] WHY Divorce occurs?


> If Chris and I ever separated, it would be so the other had their freedom 
> and lack of problems.
>
> IN Christ,
>
> Doris
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> At 03:11 PM 2014/01/27 +0200, you wrote:
>>Dear all, peace be with you.
>>
>>Today I am going to talk about a subject which is not my favorit at all.
>>
>>Yes, it is a subject that I would not usually bring up into discussion 
>>but, I just felt the grave necessaty to do so.
>>
>>There are many familys living in precarious  conditions right now.
>>
>>We are constantly defined by who we are, but recently, we are redefined 
>>by who we are not.
>>
>>It is a major challenge at presently to maintain your relationship ties, 
>>and believe it or not, it is worsening on a regular basis, and 
>>particularly here in Egypt.
>>
>>It truly exasperates me when I hear about freshly espoused couples split 
>>up for preposterous reasons.
>>
>>I woke up earlier this morning asking myself;
>>
>>Why divorce occurs?
>>Why it occurs on that terrific stage, terrific amount.
>>
>>We ought to take the subject quite seriously.
>>
>>We have to recognize that we are living in a delusional state of 
>>affectional phase.
>>
>>People talk about warmly romantic love stories but, why many of these love 
>>stories end up into enormous grievances.
>>
>>There must be a reason for that.
>>
>>Well, I am still asking the question, why divorce occurs?
>>
>>There are miscellaneous causes for spousal disassociations.
>>
>>Well amongst them are as namely.
>>
>>Children custody, desertions, betrayals, revilements, mental or physical 
>>violence, indigence, and miscommunications.
>>
>>We have got serious problems here.
>>
>>     The vast majority of dissolution  cases are belonged to the category 
>> of perfidious incidents, alleged allegations of unfaithful involvements.
>>
>>Why there are too many cheating spouses today?
>>
>>The divorce rate curves so highly into threatening state here in Egypt, 
>>but I am sure that other countries are not much better.
>>
>>It critically saddens me but, what are the reasons for all of these 
>>divorcements to occur.
>>
>>There are many reasons to begin with, and there are sequential reasons 
>>which leads to the grieved destiny.
>>
>>The chief cause of spousal disassociations in my opinion, is the trust 
>>loss.
>>
>>Anything could be solved within a relationship, but not the trust loss.
>>
>>It leads to the buttom of the line, and it incites endless disputes.
>>
>>How mistrust occurs?
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>>It often occurs when the spouse is   caught up lying on multiple 
>>occasions.
>>
>>That leads to numerous arguments, which consequentially leads to permanent 
>>divorcement.
>>
>>The second chief cause of spousal disassociations is when the man tends to 
>>periodically disrespect his wife, or when he deliberately denigrates her 
>>opinion in public platform.
>>
>>This is commonly practiced by men, and particularly, here in the middle 
>>east.
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>>   I personally have witnessed that being done.
>>
>>I am not sure of the justification which these men have.
>>
>>Well, within Islam, there is no justification of looking down on the 
>>woman, even if she slips up.
>>
>>The man ought to adhere the disposal of chivalry towards his wife, even in 
>>the times of misbehavior, he has no right what so ever to humiliate her, 
>>and particularly in public.
>>
>>      There is a radical misconception of this cultural complex of what 
>> Islam teaches, and what that has incorrectly been derived because of 
>> grave ignorance and disinformation.
>>
>>
>>I watch on Egyptian drama which features that disappointing symbolism, it 
>>portrays men as dominants on women, giving the notion that it is brought 
>>by Islamic tradition.
>>
>>Well, that is just silly and nonsense.
>>
>>Islam decisively summons onto the fact that men have to take care of their 
>>wives, and it woes any attempts of aggression.
>>
>>Well, this editorial has a continual segment, so watch out for that.
>>
>>Until I render the second part of this essay, stay blessedly in the grace 
>>of Allah, and peace be with you.
>>
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