[Faith-talk] updates on my current living situation

Poppa Bear heavens4real at gmail.com
Wed Mar 2 18:55:56 UTC 2016 

Amen

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edgcumbe via Faith-talk
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that is so true  if you can't be happy with yourself how can you expect to
happy with somebody else.  beth what you have to consider is this can you
take care of yourself can you cook clean and doo the all the nessisary
house work.  can you pay your bills and   what can't you do. If you can't
take care of yourself  then you for sure can't take care of the boy friend.
you need to seek out biblical council and you need to seek out bible
believing church. the things is this allot of churches may say they teach
the bible but  many churches have strayed away from the bible and teaching
truth in my opinion.  If i were you i would be open and honest with your
family even about this situation. i think being honest is very important.
another thing is this reason linda was asking if your boy friend was a
christian is because  an unbeliever can't be yoked to a believer or vice a
versa  a believer yoked to an unbeliever.  the bible does say that.  If we
don't do things god's way we are just headed for far more stresses or
problems if we do things outside of the will of god.  we may have problems
as christians but at least god is there to walk you through them.  How can
we expect the blessing of God if we don't do things his way and how can we
expect his favour if we don't do things way he asks us to.  if the boy
friend has big problems to then it is not advised that a disfunctional
person can't be with another disfunctional person believe me it would just
double the problem and stuff.  It can add to stress to.
inless a person can grow within themselves how can they help others until
they help themselves.

On Wed, Mar 2, 2016 at 1:23 PM, Poppa Bear via Faith-talk <
faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:

> Right on Andrew, many people are so desperate to feel a connection 
> with somebody that they will often abandon the real people who care 
> about them to seek out any kind of affection that they can get. No 
> parent is perfect, but once you become a parent you do find out how 
> much love it took to raise you and all of the sacrifices that had to 
> be made to take care of you and then you see how important a parents 
> claims on you are. The connection and attention that we all desire on 
> the deepest level can only come from God. I have found out that broken 
> people without peace in their lives will typically find somebody else 
> who is in the same boat and then instead of having one miserable 
> struggling person they have multiplied all of the misery, brokenness 
> and baggage by two. Once that cycle starts in somebody's life it is 
> hard to choose a different path and healthy relationships, we need to 
> find ourselves desperate for God and not somebody to make us feel 
> loved because they will fail every time and then we will be left like 
> a scared baby in a crib all alone still rejecting the hands of our 
> heavenly father.
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Faith-talk [mailto:faith-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of 
> andrew edgcumbe via Faith-talk
> Sent: Wednesday, March 02, 2016 8:45 AM
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> Cc: andrew edgcumbe
> Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] updates on my current living situation
>
> thanks papa bear the thing is this some might consider the bible old 
> fationed and stuff but  God never changes so there fore i feel he 
> never changes his word to us.  I was through a situation with a girl 
> not long ago and stuff actually. The thing was this She wanted me to 
> live with her in the worst way yet I let her talk about it for a while 
> and let things  go for a while but basically I just p ut an end to the 
> relationship december.
> She wanted to sleep with me in a hotel my parents said  i was with the 
> young adult group that night but during friday she got nasty with my 
> parents in fact. The thing is this she  had said allot of lies my dad 
> called her parents.  The thing is this I found out what she was really 
> like under the surface the truth of the matter  is this if you were to 
> meet her she would seem nice but  the thing is this she was very  very 
> clingy and stuff like that.  she did not even talk to her parents 
> about me.  I not sure is if your family is truly that bad or not but 
> maybe your mom or dad have a reason behind what they say to you and 
> stuff like that.  you need to seek advice from bible beliving 
> christians. what you need to do is you can only serve tw you can't 
> serve two masters you either serve god or the devil.  Marriage i know 
> it may not always seem that way but marriage should bring families 
> together and things  when you mary a boy friend or girl friend you 
> mary the family. Family is very important.  The family is is the Godly 
> way.  our families may not be perfect  but  we need to respect our 
> parents and respect our alders that means respect those who are older 
> than we are.  we need to the bible says to honor your parents.
>
> On Wed, Mar 2, 2016 at 12:12 PM, Poppa Bear via Faith-talk < 
> faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>
> > Wow Andrew, you said some very wise things, I am blessed that you 
> > can also see the wisdom in Linda's words, Linda may have came off as 
> > over stern to some, but I believe that she is just getting to the 
> > important bottom line stuff and if a person took her advice then 
> > they would more than likely land on their spiritual feet and not on 
> > their head and be
> walking in God's will.
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Faith-talk [mailto:faith-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of 
> > andrew edgcumbe via Faith-talk
> > Sent: Wednesday, March 02, 2016 7:59 AM
> > To: Faith-talk, for the discussion of faith and religion
> > Cc: andrew edgcumbe
> > Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] updates on my current living situation
> >
> > i could not have said it better than linda  you need to  not block 
> > your family out of the picture family is very very important.  all 
> > we can see here is your side of the story  there are always two 
> > sides to the
> story.
> > you need to not get ahead of god and his will. you need to do things 
> > god's way.  God's way is not to live together and if you two sleep 
> > together you will undefile the bed of God.  you need to seek 
> > spiritual council from a pastor or your church you need to first off 
> > if you are not in a bible believing church you need to find one we 
> > may not like what god says but the bible and God tells the truth as 
> > it is and the truth is the reality.  you need to look at things 
> > through god first God needs to be put first before your boy friend.
> >
> > On Wed, Mar 2, 2016 at 11:50 AM, Linda Mentink via Faith-talk < 
> > faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
> >
> > > Hi Beth,
> > >
> > > Please be careful what you write here, and watch your language.
> > > Remember, all messages are archived. I know it's rough for you and 
> > > your boyfriend right now, but you're very wrong, if in fact you 
> > > believe yourself to be a Christian, to live together before marriage.
> > > The Bible tells us to avoid the appearance of evil, and that the 
> > > marriage
> > bed is not to be defiled.
> > > You're struggles are partly because you are not being obedient to 
> > > your Lord, no matter how you rationalize it.. In my opinion, 
> > > you're going about this all wrong. Your boyfriend should stay with 
> > > a church family temporarily, if possible, and get his finances squared
away.
> > > Neither of you will be tempted to enter into the "nowing each other"
> > > part of the relationship before marriage.
> > >
> > > As to FaceBook, also be careful what you post there as well. Share 
> > > privately with a few close friends, and don't block your family..
> > >
> > > You are allowing people and circumstances to rule over you, rather 
> > > than allowing God to work in and through you. We on this list are 
> > > praying for you, but God's will won't be done if your will isn't 
> > > lining up with His. Be careful how you spend what little money you 
> > > have so that you can save for a marriage license. Maybe your 
> > > pastor will preside over a private ceremony in the Church when you 
> > > can afford
> > it.
> > >
> > > Many of the problems we all have in our lives are partly of our 
> > > own making, and we blame God or others for how things are turning 
> > > out for
> us.
> > > Please ask God for discernment and His wisdom, and stop plowing 
> > > ahead with your own agenda.
> > >
> > > I continue to pray for you.
> > >
> > > Blessings,
> > >
> > > Linda
> > >
> > >
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