[Faith-talk] small update, frustrated at the moment

Debby Phillips semisweetdebby at gmail.com
Thu Mar 3 04:39:24 UTC 2016


Beth, I think you are truly over-reacting.  Her being African 
American has nothing whatever to do with any of this.  If his 
mother is his payee, then it's possible that there could be a 
hearing to make sure that your boyfriend is competent to handle 
his own affairs.  If it is determined that he is competent to 
handle his own affairs, then she would not be able to be his 
payee anymore.  His money may be what has paid for their 
apartment.  If that's the case, she is of course feeling 
frightened herself.  She naturally does not want her lifestyle to 
have to change.  But if there has to be a hearing and it is 
determined that he is not competent to handle his own affairs, 
then he will have to have a payee whether it's her or someone 
else.    Debby




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