[Faith-talk] {Spam?} To Marianne

[Linda Mentink]

Hi Marianne,

As Paul said, you have come to the right group, and I welcome 
you.  I suggest that you contact a woman in the church, like the 
pastor's wife or a deaconess, and explain what you'd like and 
what you need.  Ask to be involved in some aspect of the church's 
various ministries-fold bulletins, help in the nursery, get on 
the prayer chain if there is one-that kind of thing.  If you do 
more than just attend the worship services, you'll meet people in 
smaller groups, and maybe someone will befriend you.  Try not to 
come across as really needy, but offer to be helpful.  Offer to 
speak to the children, adults, or all about what it's like to be 
blind, and show some of the things you use to live independently.

Over the years, I've been involved where I can, and have found 
that people usually are willing to let me share the load.  I have 
played organ, keyboard and piano; sung solos; been in small 
musical groups; sung in the choir; been a deaconess, an AWANA 
leader, prayer chain chairman, Missions Committee member, and 
Music Committee member; folded the weekly bulletins; participated 
in Bible women's studies and small groups; and done my share in 
bringing food to pot-lucks.  I have been able to make many good 
friends, some of whom have gone on walks or bike rides with me or 
read books to me.  That's been my experience, for what it's 
worth.  I hope this is an encouragement to you.

Blessings,

Linda