[Faith-talk] For Catholics with special needs, a religious education that includes | USCatholic.org

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Yes! I think when I walked away from the Catholic Church in the 90's, I never really was happy until returning. I will tell you all somewhing that I believe happened. I was born in 1954, and I was a premie baby. I was bern in Sacred Heart Hospital in Medford, Oregon. A friend of mine who is a Deacon in the Catholic Chchrch and involved in the Charismatic Renewal. He told me that one day he was praying for me, and the Lord teld him that when I was a baby a nun baptized me. She thought that I would die. Then when I didn't, she continued to pray for me. I believe this because of things that happened in my childhood and young adulthood.

Thadks for saying that you think I would have been a good pastor. But I think now that the Lord has placed me where I can minister to others, and have the support that I need as well. Not everything is accessible, such as the teaching materials for teaching my third grade class. But Craig my husband is very good with computers and was able to scan much of the lesson material for me.Without him or someone else who could scan the material, I would not have been able to teach the children well. Many of the lessons have pictchres, which don't scan well. Kids need to see things, put stickers on fages, etc. They get pretty bored and restless with just oral teaching. They don't like that. Were we as restless and not willing to just listen without activities when we were kids? I just don't know. Big grin.    Debby

On May 21, 2017 2:30 PM, Ericka via Faith-Talk <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
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> That's horrible Debby! You probably would have made a good pastor too. When started Diakonia my pastor wasn't supporting me but the rest of the congregation was happy for me,  he & wife took a new call & i was able to use the skills & gifts. You found just the right place too it sounds. God sure has an interesting way of revealing his plans to each pf us doesnyhe? 
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> Ericka Short 
> from my iPhone 6+ 
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> > On May 21, 2017, at 3:28 PM, Debby Phillips via Faith-Talk <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote: 
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> > Hi Ericka, I am so sorry that you have had such bad experiences. After being in a church where my husband was ignored most of the time, and I felt left out socially, I am so glad to be in a place that wants us and does not judge us. I was encouraged to look at being a pastor. I did all the course work they asked me to do but then a new pastor came and he refused to mentor or help me in any way.  So I also lost the support from the Board. I was crushed and angry, and was also falsely accused of saying things I did not say.  Anyway I am glad it is over and we have moved forward.     Debby. 
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> > Sent from my iPhone 
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> >> On May 20, 2017, at 5:41 PM, Ashley Bramlett via Faith-Talk <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote: 
> >> 
> >> Hi Debby, 
> >> 
> >> I can understand your feelings. I'm glad for you that the church you love and attend is welcoming and you can join in as just one other member. 
> >> Your situation of integration is one we would all like I'm sure. I can also agree that we have to help ourselves and the first thing we should not do is ask for help. But, pretty soon to keep going to church, you are going to need to ask for transportation unless you can keep affording expensive paratransit or are lucky to have a bus running. That is if you live alone or live with no drivers who can assist. 
> >> I do not know about your area, but our metro area has real limited bus service on Sundays. 
> >> 
> >> And, no I never found your messages offensive. You definitely share your thoughts and I know they're from the heart. 
> >> So do not read on if you don't want to hear negatives on the catholic church. 
> >> 
> >> I join the rest of you  in saying a word on the catholic church. 
> >> I was just in a religion class elective; I take classes off and on as I look for work. We had to attend another type of religious service; another type means another religion different than one we grew up in; since I am protestant, I was approved by the professor to attend a catholic church. 
> >> So I went and dad went with me as to not be so alone in this massive church. 
> >> I found that people just leave in a hurry after service. How different than most protestant churches where we shake hands with the minister, greet anyone else there in the receiving line by the minister such as a family who had a kid who was baptized, optionally join the congregation in the fellowship hall, and say hi to others. 
> >> It is so different in the Catholic church I learned from my participant assignment. Catholics leave after service and no one spoke to each other or their own priest. In fact, I got a sense that the priest did not even know his congregation, although I suppose that is typical in a large church. 
> >> I did not find the Catholicchurch too friendly. I also reached out to the worship director. Can you believe this? Of all people, I expected a church leader to be helpful to someone for an assignment. The director failed to return my emails and phone calls. 
> >> I did speak to the priest, but he seemed kind of aloof. I was hoping he would have described the church atmosphere more like the setup and architecture when I asked him about the 
> >> sanctuary. 
> >> 
> >> Ericka, I can see why you said what you said. 
> >> 
> >> I'm not bashing the church to anyone who is catholic. I'm just sharing thoughts and echoing others experiences. 
> >> 
> >> Ashley 
> >> -----Original Message----- From: debby phillips via Faith-Talk 
> >> Sent: Saturday, May 20, 2017 12:26 PM 
> >> To: Ericka via Faith-Talk 
> >> Cc: semisweetdebby at gmail.com 
> >> Subject: Re: [Faith-talk] For Catholics with special needs, a religious education that includes | USCatholic.org 
> >> 
> >> I'm really feeling a bit defensive here. I'm feeling like I should unsubscribe, because I have to say that this has not been my experience of the Catholic Church. I also think that if we go te any church, whatever that church may be expecting them right away to do for us, we will be very disappointed. Most of my time as a practicing Catholic, I was single. I did have some conelp when I first moved to Portland, OR, but that was due to a connection with someone from another city I'd lived in. Eventually I moved to a different parish, and could walk to church. On reakly nasty weather days, I did get rides. I think we do have to put forth some effort on our own, reach out and get involved. It's not easy, especially in the beginning but it's just how it is. Take the bus if you have to, walk if you have to, maybe pay for a cab once or twie, and yes I know it's expensive. But when people see that we make an effort for ourselves, they're a lot more willing then to reach out and accept us. I think that if we act like helpless blind folks that's how we'll be treated. I didd't like the first parish I attended in Portland, and happened to meet someone who took me to her parish, which I really liked. So I eventually moved to that part of Portland so that I could go to that parish. It was a great place for me. But it didn't happen easily or all at once. Well, ow'd best go now, I've probably offended many of you, and I'm sorry if I have, but in all honesty I don't regret having said anything that ow said.    Blessings,    Debby 
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> >>> On May 19, 2017 7:14 PM, Ericka via Faith-Talk <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote: 
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> >>> The Catholic Church as I have attended in the past never tried to do anything for me either. I've also attended many different types of warship and the only one that has encouraged and supported my faith has been the Evangelical Lutheran Church. 
> >>> 
> >>> Ericka Short 
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> >>> from my iPhone 6+ 
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> >>>> On May 19, 2017, at 3:33 PM, Jenny Keller via Faith-Talk > <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote: 
> >>>> 
> >>>> Hi all, having one in the Catholic or year. I think it's interesting > people the article special needs special needs special needs it has > every thing but lightness and yes a different special needs his mental > and physical situation why this is a whole Nother beast. And people tend > to forget that. Hence why we have to pay crap load the money for him > though. 
> >>>> 
> >>>> 
> >>>> Also, I don't see one of the richest churches in the universe helping > pay for the him situation, or most definitely the transit situation > which blind people having difficulty with. I can't afford to pay for > paratransit to take me to choir practice, in fact, when I audition and > was asked to be in the choir choir director told me that I was not going > to be able to ask anyone for help in transportation in the choir in fact > his words were don't expect anyone to help you get to and from from the > choir. And I'm sorry, that's a little different. 
> >>>> 
> >>>> It seems is this the special-needs situation there seem to be more > activities and abilities. Also on the other hand. 
> >>>> 
> >>>> Again, I'm not bashing the church. I'm just telling you what I have seen > in several cities in my life 
> >>>> 
> >>>> 
> >>>> Jenny 
> >>>> 
> >>>>> On May 19, 2017, at 1:26 PM, Ericka via Faith-Talk >> <faith-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote: 
> >>>>> 
> >>>>> Felt this was a good article to share. No I'm not Catholic, I very much >> respect this pope and wish everyone clung to his words. 
> >>>>> 
> >>>>> http://www.uscatholic.org/articles/201704/catholics-special-needs-religious-education-includes-30990 
> >>>>> 
> >>>>> 
> >>>>> Ericka Short 
> >>>>> 1750 Fordem Ave. #508 
> >>>>> Madison. WI. 53704 
> >>>>> 608-665-3170 
> >>>>> 
> >>>>> from my iPhone 6+ 
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