[il-talk] Proving your blindness

Wed Feb 17 19:54:30 UTC 2016

I think it would be an excellent idea to put together an article about this topic for the newsletter. Would anybody like to volunteer to work with me on this? We could write it togetherLeslie

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> On Feb 17, 2016, at 8:09 AM, pattischang--- via il-talk <il-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
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> I honestly wish that people would simply ask me what I need instead of making assumptions. I do not feel that it is a good conversation starter to begin with what I do and don't need on a regular basis. I am not offended until people believe that they know better than I how to deal with my disability. We respect many people based on their experience. There really isn't much difference between respecting me for my experience with blindness and respected me for my experience as an attorney.
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> Live the life you want.  Every day we raise the expectations of blind  people in the National Federation of the Blind.
> 
> Patti S. Gregory-Chang
> NFBI Treasurer
> NFB Scholarship Comm. Chair
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> On Feb 16, 2016, at 10:22 PM, Harris Singer via il-talk <il-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
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> All minority or disadvantaged groups always have to prove themselves.
> The feeling of proving ourselves is by no means unique to the blind.
> Our particular challenge is there are so few of us so we are by
> default unicorns walking amongst the masses. We blind often expect the
> sighted to somehow intuitively know what help or non-help to provide
> and we get upset when we feel aggrieved by the ignorant sighted. In
> the absence of actual knowledge people invent knowledge in its place.
> When coming upon sighted people where I can expect someone to want to
> help I will proactively tell the person what I need or don’t need
> before they will even have the chance to speak. This usually throws
> them off, but they at least know what my expectations are and they are
> deprived of the chance to invent a thought about what I need. There
> are many cultural misunderstandings between the blind and sighted. The
> work we do in the NFB and in living our lives publicly helps bridge
> this divide every day.
> 
> Harris
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>> On 2/16/16, Leslie Hamric via il-talk <il-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>> Very interesting perspective as well.
>> Lh
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>>> On Feb 16, 2016, at 9:15 PM, Jemal Powell via il-talk <il-talk at nfbnet.org>
>>> wrote:
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>>> Interesting topic in my opinion whatever we do in our lives. We are
>>> proving ourselves. Whether it's walking through our neighborhood. Using
>>> mass transit going to visit friends family church or a doctors employment
>>> or education. Whatever we do we are always proving ourselves in some form
>>> or fashion. As Brian people. That's just life. A Brian person. So I'm
>>> sorry people maybe cut that some thought if you may be uncomfortable with
>>> that but so be it. If we spend time worrying about others perception of us
>>> and try to please others and what their police are we would never be able
>>> to leave the lies we want. Life is too short.
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>>>> From: Leslie Hamric via il-talk <il-talk at nfbnet.org>
>>>> Sent: February 16, 2016 9:01:33 AM
>>>> To: NFB of Illinois Mailing List <il-talk at nfbnet.org>
>>>> Subject: Re: [il-talk] Proving your blindness
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>>>> Let me say it a different way. I'm sure along the line, you've all been
>>>> told by someone that you spend a lot of time trying to prove yourself
>>>> because of your blindness. I tend to react negatively when I hear this
>>>> statement. And I'm wondering how others may react, positively or
>>>> negatively? Do you ever feel like proving yourself or that you can do
>>>> things gets in the way of living your life for being yourself? Thoughts?
>>>> This could start a good discussion.
>>>> Leslie
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>>>>> On Feb 16, 2016, at 7:34 AM, Leslie Hamric via il-talk
>>>>> <il-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:
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>>>>> Hey guys. I have a question. I'm sure you've all been told somewhere
>>>>> along the way that you spent a lot of time proving that you can do
>>>>> things in spite of your blindness. How do you  react to this  statement?
>>>>> I think this topic could start a good discussion.
>>>>> Leslie
>>>>> 
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