[IL-Talk] Where do people get a license to put their hands on us?

[Ray Campbell]

Hi All:

I like Leslie's approach about telling people it's not safe to grab us.  If
I can't educate someone, what has served me well over the years is if
someone grabs my arm, I pull away from them really hard so they get the
message.

Thanks,



Ray Campbell
Ray153056 at gmail.com

Blog: farmers-boy.livejournal.com
Twitter: @packerbackerray
Facebook: www.facebook.com/packerbackerray

-----Original Message-----
From: IL-Talk <il-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org> On Behalf Of Deborah Kent Stein
via IL-Talk
Sent: Tuesday, September 27, 2022 1:42 PM
To: 'NFB of Illinois Mailing List' <il-talk at nfbnet.org>
Cc: Deborah Kent Stein <dkent5817 at att.net>
Subject: Re: [IL-Talk] Where do people get a license to put their hands on
us?



In this day and age, I think most people are learning not to grab children.
Somehow that doesn't translate to not grabbing us. We're still fair game.

Debbie


-----Original Message-----
From: IL-Talk [mailto:il-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of
dandrews920--- via IL-Talk
Sent: Tuesday, September 27, 2022 1:32 PM
To: 'NFB of Illinois Mailing List' <il-talk at nfbnet.org>
Cc: dandrews920 at comcast.net
Subject: Re: [IL-Talk] Where do people get a license to put their hands on
us?

They think of us as children, so it is OK to grab.

Dave



-----Original Message-----
From: IL-Talk <il-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org> On Behalf Of Leslie Hamric via
IL-Talk
Sent: Tuesday, September 27, 2022 10:54 AM
To: Iltalk <il-talk at nfbnet.org>
Cc: Leslie Hamric <lhamric930 at comcast.net>
Subject: [IL-Talk] Where do people get a license to put their hands on us?

Good morning Federationists. Today I was going to an eye doctor appointment.
And from the door of the building to the elevator, and then up to the
office, I had a total of three people grab my arm. Of course, they thought
they were helping when they really weren't. So I decided to try a new
approach. Instead of saying, please don't grab, I said, please don't grab
it's not safe. You should see how they back off when they hear the words
it's not safe. And then, of course, each one got all apologetic. So, of
course, I did some educating and then they got it. And then, when I got down
the elevator back to the main entrance, a fourth person said, can I help you
and they grab my arm. So I started the process all over again. All we ask
for as blind people is an assumption of competence. Where did the cited
people get off thinking that they can just put their hands on us? I wish I
knew. But until then, I will keep educating.

Leslie Hamric
Cello and Braille Music Teacher
Board member of National Federation of the Blind Performing Arts Division


_______________________________________________
IL-Talk mailing list
IL-Talk at nfbnet.org
http://nfbnet.org/mailman/listinfo/il-talk_nfbnet.org
To unsubscribe, change your list options or get your account info for
IL-Talk:
http://nfbnet.org/mailman/options/il-talk_nfbnet.org/dkent5817%40att.net


--
This email has been checked for viruses by Avast antivirus software.
www.avast.com

_______________________________________________
IL-Talk mailing list
IL-Talk at nfbnet.org
http://nfbnet.org/mailman/listinfo/il-talk_nfbnet.org
To unsubscribe, change your list options or get your account info for
IL-Talk:
http://nfbnet.org/mailman/options/il-talk_nfbnet.org/ray153056%40gmail.com