[nabs-l] Sex Education Curriculum

Carly Mihalakis carlymih at comcast.net
Mon Jul 16 20:25:10 UTC 2012


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Afternoon, Ashley,

Bad language? I was talking about a donkey.At 01:19 PM 7/16/2012, you wrote:
>Carley, Can you refrain from using bad language. 
>Others have already said its not a separate 
>curriculum. Did you all who complain take the 
>survey? I did not yet. But due to the visual 
>stuff about it, it’s a good idea. We cannot se 
>it in movies, in magazines, or making out in 
>public. I think a book about it and the 
>reproductive system woule be real helpful. I 
>would love to see the  curriculum once 
>developed. Ashley -----Original Message----- 
>From: Carly Mihalakis Sent: Monday, July 16, 
>2012 1:05 PM To: National Association of Blind 
>Students mailing list Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Sex 
>Education Curriculum I know. How is it that 
>people, due to a coincidental absence of  an 
>ocular, input get off thinking themselves 
>special that they require some  overly adapted 
>curriculum or equipment for participating in one 
>of life's building blocks? I mean, how 'bout a 
>special blinkie toilet? This is how a blind man 
>wipes his ass, see look, it's especially adapted 
>for the sightless among us, it's made for the 
>ass of a blind man, nobody else can use it. How 
>is sex ed different than math or science or any 
>thing else?  Most >subjects have a visual 
>component.  Does that mean  that we need 
>a >special curriculum for every thing?  You 
>learn about sex in the same way >you learn about 
>any other social interaction.  Like some other 
>people on >the list, I don't understand why this 
>can't be discussed openly on 
>the >list. > >-----Original Message----- >From: 
>nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org 
>[mailto:nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org] On >Behalf Of 
>Desiree Oudinot >Sent: Thursday, July 12, 2012 
>11:07 PM >To: National Association of Blind 
>Students mailing list >Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Sex 
>Education Curriculum > >Hi all, >I don't see why 
>this discussion should be banned from the list. 
>This is >just my opinion, and I don't mean to be 
>rude, but it seems to me that >there is a lot of 
>hesitation and outright disgust that's being 
>talked >about here. And, let's be honest, how 
>are we ever going to clear up >people's 
>misconceptions if we don't talk about them? >I 
>think it's probably easier for people to discuss 
>these matters on a >list where they can be 
>anonymous. Given the ages of some of the 
>people >here, I can see why there would be some 
>embarrassment involved if some >of you don't 
>know what certain things are. I think it's 
>probably >beneficial at this point to try and 
>help each other out. It's a little >late for us 
>to have better sex ed, so why not try to stop 
>all this >nervous tittering about terminology? 
>The terms Brandon used weren't >offensive. They 
>were the anatomically correct terms. Plus, while 
>I hink >the examples he uses are slightly 
>exaggerated, that's not to say they >can never 
>happen, and I think if we're going to have a 
>discussion of >this nature, we need to be up 
>front about it. We're all adults here, or >at 
>least the age of consent. >I'm not talking about 
>some of the religious convictions that 
>certain >members have expressed. Those are 
>personal, and if that's how you feel, >there's 
>nothing wrong with that. But please take a step 
>outside those >for a moment and think of how 
>this discussion benefits others who 
>are >reading. I'll bet there are some people who 
>are sitting here reading >this, and have 
>questions and concerns they would like to 
>express, but >feel they can't for whatever 
>reason. I implore you all not to ruin it >for 
>those who really could use this 
>information. > >On 7/12/12, Arielle Silverman 
><arielle71 at gmail.com> wrote: > > Hi all, > > 
>Don't take this the wrong way, but if any of you 
>have anatomy > > questions, you can email me 
>offlist at arielle71 at gmail.com Seriously, > > I 
>did learn a lot about this stuff in my biology 
>classes. > > Best, > > Arielle > > > > On 
>7/12/12, Ignasi Cambra <ignasicambra at gmail.com> 
>wrote: > >> Ashley, > >> I believe you didn't 
>know about any of these things because you > >> 
>didn't inform yourself, not because you are 
>blind... > >> > >> Sent from my iPhone > >> > >> 
>On Jul 12, 2012, at 4:23 PM, Ashley 
>Bramlett > >> <bookwormahb at earthlink.net> > >> 
>wrote: > >> > >>> Sophie, > >>> I, too, took a 
>sex ed class and it was useful. But, we still 
>lack > >>> knowledge usually. I don't think this 
>replaces school education, it > >>> supplements 
>it. > >>> Having nonvisual access such as a 
>description, diagrams, or model > >>> would 
>further aide in  our understanding of such a 
>matter. > >>> Guys you may want to skip the next 
>paragraph. > >>> > >>> For instance, My 
>brother's wife just had a baby; having not seen 
>or > >>> been explained what the birth process 
>is, I don't have a clue what >its about. > >>> 
>What are contractions? What is ambiotic fluid 
>and what is its role > >>> in supporting the 
>fetus? I still don't understand how a baby 
>gets > >>> nurishment as its in the mother. I 
>know from the mother's food, but > >>> just how 
>I don't understand. > >>> They told me Steve, my 
>brother, cut the umbilical cord. > >>> But where 
>is that on the baby and mother? Kasey told me 
>she started > >>> labour in the evening and went 
>to the hospital; she did not have the > > >>> 
>baby til next afternoon! I asked her how she 
>managed it; wasn't she > >>> tired? She informed 
>me she slept a little during the night. She 
>told > > >>> me the baby's head came out first 
>which was normal. I did not know > >>> this. I 
>learned from her as I held my nephew that the 
>head came out > >>> first and then the trunk and 
>limbs. I learned that babies cried > >>> after 
>they came out of the womb. > >>> I > >>> learned 
>that infants needed to get milk very often. I am 
>hoping > >>> Kasey will tell me more about her 
>pregnancy and the beginnings of > >>> it, AKA, 
>the sex part sometime. > >>> > >>> I think I'll 
>take that survey that started this. > >>> 
>Ashley > >>> > >>> -----Original Message----- 
>From: Sophie Trist > >>> Sent: Thursday, July 
>12, 2012 1:37 PM > >>> To: National Association 
>of Blind Students mailing list > >>> Subject: 
>Re: [nabs-l] Sex Education 
>Curriculum > >>> > >>> Dave, I'm a little 
>confused. I'm going into tenth grade, and I 
>took > >>> a sex ed class in seventh grade. I 
>found it to be very informative > >>> despite my 
>blindness. I don't understand why we need a 
>special > >>> curriculum for sex ed. > >>> > >>> 
>----- Original Message ----- > >>> From: David 
>Andrews <dandrews at visi.com > >>> To: 
>nabs-l at nfbnet.org > >>> Date sent: Wed, 11 Jul 
>2012 20:52:03 -0500 > >>> Subject: [nabs-l] Sex 
>Education Curriculum > >>> > >>> > >>> I have 
>been asked to circulate the 
>following: > >>> > >>> > >>> 
>Dave > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> Dear NFB 
>Member, > >>> The National Federation of the 
>Blind has been gracious enough to > >>> help us 
>with a current project. > >>> > >>> We are 
>currently seeking your opinion in a survey that 
>will help us > >>> write a curriculum for 
>students with low vision and blindness in 
>the > > >>> area of sex education.  Currently no 
>curriculum exists for students > >>> with low 
>vision and blindness that reflect current 
>education > >>> standards.  Young people, 
>educators, and professionals have all > >>> 
>indicated that there is a desperate need for 
>such a curriculum. > >>> We want your voice to 
>impact our work! > >>> Please take the time to 
>fill out the survey at the link found > >>> 
>below: > >>> 
><https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/sexeducationsurvey>https://www.su  
> > >>> 
>rveymonkey.com/s/sexeducationsurvey > >>> > 
><https://maverick.hec.ohio-state.edu/exchweb/bin/redir.asp?URL=ht>>>  
> > 
>tps://www.surveymonkey.com/s/sexeducationsurvey > 
>  >>> > >>> > >>> Thank you for your time and 
>consideration of this project! > >>> Tiffany 
>Wild, Mollie Blackburn, Stacy Kelly, and Caitlin 
>Ryan > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> Thank you, > >>> 
>Mika Baugh > >>> National Federation of the 
>Blind > >>> 200 East Wells Street > >>>     at 
>Jernigan Place > >>> Baltimore, MD 21230 > >>> 
>P: (410) 659 9314 ext. 2371 > >>> E: 
><mailto:mbaugh at nfb.org>mbaugh at nfb.org > >>> W: 
><http://www.nfb.org>www.nfb.org > >>> > >>> 
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