[nabs-l] Dating & Sighted-Blind-Low Vision

Fri Mar 23 04:33:42 UTC 2012

Hi all,
As to long distance relationships, the main drawback is the obvious,
you don't see each other as often. Bryan if you think you and this
girl can have a good future, then I suggest you start seeing each
other one weekend a month or so. See how things work out, and see if
there are times when you can see each other more often. Once you have
that face to face and build a relationship from there, then I think
that the moving question will come up naturally and you can decide
together. You can innumerate all the reasons you've listed here to
her, etc. But based on three weeks, I wouldn't be making any life
decisions. Take it easy and get to know each other well.
Sincerely,
Mary

On 3/23/12, Joshua Lester <jlester8462 at students.pccua.edu> wrote:
> Thanks!
> I'll ask around, and try to go to Guiding Eyes, after I graduate college.
> Blessings, Joshua
>
> On 3/22/12, Ignasi Cambra <ignasicambra at gmail.com> wrote:
>> They do. Caniche dogs work very well as guide dogs I think, and you
>> shouldn't have any trouble with those...
>>
>> Sent from my iPhone
>>
>> On Mar 22, 2012, at 10:35 PM, Joshua Lester
>> <jlester8462 at students.pccua.edu> wrote:
>>
>>> Also, with the guide dog, you never know, if the person you're dating
>>> has an allergy to dogs.
>>> That's why I avoid them, because of my allergies.
>>> I don't know, if they train dogs, that are nonallergenic.
>>> Nicole, do you know if they do?
>>> Thanks, Joshua
>>>
>>> On 3/22/12, Nicole B. Torcolini at Home <ntorcolini at wavecable.com> wrote:
>>>> I'm not saying that this is a reason to get one, and I know that they
>>>> are
>>>> not for everyone, and, if you tell the training center that you want one
>>>> for
>>>> this reason, they're probably not going to accept you, but guide dogs
>>>> can
>>>> sometimes be a way to break the ice in awkward situations. However,
>>>> there
>>>> is
>>>> of course a flip side to that. Some people who have guide dogs don't
>>>> like
>>>> it
>>>> when people talk to them because of their dogs. .
>>>>
>>>> Nicole
>>>>
>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>>> From: "Mary Fernandez" <trillian551 at gmail.com>
>>>> To: "National Association of Blind Students mailing list"
>>>> <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
>>>> Sent: Thursday, March 22, 2012 6:42 PM
>>>> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Dating & Sighted-Blind-Low Vision
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> Hello All,
>>>> This is a really fantastic topic for a number of reasons. First,
>>>> dating is hard as a blind person. But dating can also be hard for
>>>> someone who is overweight, someone who is well below average height,
>>>> someone who has trouble hearing, etc. In short, dating can be hard for
>>>> anyone who isn't simply average, someone who doesn't fall squarely in
>>>> the fattest part of the bell curve when we look at populations. Even
>>>> geniuses have trouble dating, I'm friends with some, and it's a true
>>>> story.
>>>> I was having a conversation about dating with a very good friend of
>>>> mine a few days ago. And one of the things we both agreed upon, is
>>>> that one of the challenges of dating in the typical ways that most
>>>> people do, is that most sighted people see you as an asexual being,
>>>> who needs help, and who cannot be viewed as datable. Which, like
>>>> Arielle said,  makes it hard for blind people to go to bars and other
>>>> hang out places where singles gather and just pick up someone and go
>>>> on a date. We have to carry a heavier burden by making ourselves even
>>>> more accessible than most people, and this might play havoc with our
>>>> self-esteem.  The courting sequence usually goes something like this:
>>>> Man and woman sit at bar. Man and woman makes eye-contact.
>>>> If man and woman give each other physical cue, man will usually,
>>>> though not always, make a comment which will spark off conversation.
>>>> If woman is interested, about 2 minutes into the conversation she will
>>>> angle herself toward the man. If conversation continues to be
>>>> stimulating, and man and woman are getting a deeper connection, casual
>>>> touching might begin, and a second date might be requested.
>>>> Now, lets look at this from a blind perspective. Man or woman walk
>>>> into bar, after using cane successfully, fending off unwanted requests
>>>> to be helped, man or woman find barstool. After being observed to
>>>> enter by most of the bar, observers' mis-conceptions about blindness
>>>> will have been activated. And our shot of having this normal courting
>>>> sequence is nipped at the bud. Of course, a person who wasn't there
>>>> before hand might come in, look at your gorgeous skirt and be
>>>> instantly drawn in. Which is why, I like to arrive early at parties
>>>> and spark up a conversation with new comers. When they find out your
>>>> blind however, all bets are off.
>>>> This is not to say that blind individuals cannot and should not have a
>>>> dating experience. On the contrary, I have been fairly successful in
>>>> dating along with many other blind women and men I know. Like Arielle
>>>> and others mentioned, whether someone is sighted or blind should be
>>>> irrelevant in who you choose to spend your time with and consider as a
>>>> potential romantic partner. there are so many other things that come
>>>> into play. What's important to you? Values, humor, kindness,
>>>> intelligence, height, hair color, philosophical view, political
>>>> parties? Could you truly date a democrat with all those liberal ideas
>>>> they have? Or God forbid you find a blind conservative, but decide to
>>>> stay with them because it's more comfortable. Relationships are so
>>>> incredibly hard and take a lot of work .You learn a lot from each
>>>> other. But hopefully, most of the time you enjoy each other
>>>> thoroughly, know what your flaws are and continue to like the person
>>>> despite them, and have a stronger basis for that relationship than
>>>> mere visual acuity.
>>>> So, basically, yes, if online dating is something you want to
>>>> explore, than yes, do it! If the single chess club is something your
>>>> into, go for it! If a singles book club, (which is totally something
>>>> I'm looking into right now), sounds interesting, then by all means. Be
>>>> creative, don't limit yourself to national convention or the local
>>>> bar,, try speed dating! Trivia night! Just going to house parties. But
>>>> most of all, be comfortable with yourself, don't go looking for a
>>>> sighted date or a blind date for validation. Because that never ends
>>>> well. The truth of the matter is that even those of us who are
>>>> completely comfortable with their blindness, who lead, full happy and
>>>> fulfilled life, can be put down sometimes by being perceived by the
>>>> sighted world as somehow lacking, when we know we are not. But, you do
>>>> learn that you really are ok, and that dating is just one more thing
>>>> we have to do using alternative skills. I know, from the experience of
>>>> friends, that some sighted people like to date blind people, because
>>>> it makes them feel useful. It validates their self-worth, since they
>>>> have someone they can help all the time. And I know blind people who
>>>> think that dating someone who is sighted is somehow a superior
>>>> experience. I've done both, and speaking from a woman's perspective.
>>>> All men have issues. But you can find some truly golden ones among
>>>> them all.
>>>> A long post of mine can never be complete without my usual reference
>>>> to fashion and looking good. Dress to bring out the best features of
>>>> yourself. Even at my worse jeans, shirt and sneakers college chic,
>>>> when I wake up 10 minutes before class, I always wear color. Because I
>>>> have a nice skin tone, and color is my friend. Look nice, get some
>>>> delicious lotion or perfume, and go get em.
>>>> Sincerely,
>>>> Mary
>>>>
>>>> On 3/22/12, Doug Oliver <oliver.doug1 at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>> I'm gonna way in on this topic.
>>>>> My fiancee is actually sited and I'm blind, she's been around blind
>>>>> people
>>>>> growing up, so she's very much accustomed to dating a blind person.
>>>>> We've met in person twice and it's been great.
>>>>> Take care,
>>>>> Doug
>>>>>
>>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>>>> From: "Ashley" <cumbiambera2005 at gmail.com>
>>>>> To: "National Association of Blind Students mailing list"
>>>>> <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
>>>>> Sent: Thursday, March 22, 2012 7:42 PM
>>>>> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Dating & Sighted-Blind-Low Vision
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> Hello all,
>>>>> Like some of the people who have posted already, I have had my own
>>>>> experiences with dating, as well as simply meeting people online. As a
>>>>> matter of fact, my current boyfriend is someone I met online, and he
>>>>> is blind as well. We have been dating a little over a year now, and I
>>>>> have also had the chance to meet him in person. I can say that some of
>>>>> what we've been through, especially when we met, was both good and
>>>>> bad, and even though he is blind, it was a little more disastrous
>>>>> because of his family who are sighted. Well the first time we actually
>>>>> got to "see" each other was through a webcam, and both families were
>>>>> present, not only for discriptive purposes but also because of us
>>>>> being long distance, and it was the only way the two families could
>>>>> meet. About 6 months later I got to visit him in person, and that was
>>>>> a little weird because he lives in another country, and a part of
>>>>> another culture, and that in itself brings its own barriers. I
>>>>> actually stayed at his house with his family, and I imagine it was
>>>>> hard on them because they've never dealt with another blind person
>>>>> besides him, and he is not as independent as I am. I have also met
>>>>> sighted people online, but I did not meet them through dating sites. I
>>>>> met them through pages we both visit, (blogs, etc), and in my opinion,
>>>>> that's better because you're actually meeting people you have things
>>>>> in common with, regardless of whether you date or not, and like most
>>>>> people have said already, one of the main things to consider when
>>>>> dating someone, blind or sighted, is what kinds of things you share in
>>>>> common with the other person. I personally have never dated a sighted
>>>>> person, but I have made some interesting friends online who are
>>>>> sighted. Some know I'm blind, and some do not, but not because I
>>>>> haven't wanted to tell them. I don't meet these people in person
>>>>> mainly because most of them are not from the U.S. and therefore it
>>>>> really hasn't come up. Besides, I'm not as close to them, and we
>>>>> mainly talk about music, which is what i have in common with most of
>>>>> these people I meet anyway. I have also met blind friends online, and
>>>>> basically the same goes for them. So as most people have already said,
>>>>> I don't think it's that much different dating a sighted person from a
>>>>> blind person. A blind person might be a little more understanding
>>>>> considering they go through some of the same things. But on the other
>>>>> side, that may not always be the case, if the person isn't completely
>>>>> adjusted to their blindness, or they have been with their family their
>>>>> entire life, and don't really understand the independence issue such
>>>>> as in my case. So I think dating both blind and sighted people can
>>>>> have their ups and downs, and it's just a matter of knowing how to
>>>>> handle each situation as it comes. Good luck.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> On 3/22/12, Arielle Silverman <arielle71 at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>> Hi all,
>>>>>> I have a little experience with online dating, but not much. I was on
>>>>>> a dating site for a year or so and chatted with a few guys but didn't
>>>>>> find anyone I actually wanted to meet in person. I have a lot of
>>>>>> friends (sighted and blind) who do online dating and I've heard the
>>>>>> whole gamut, from happily-ever-after marriages to disastrous first
>>>>>> dates and a few people who walked away after my friend's blindness was
>>>>>> revealed online. It really doesn't hurt to try it. If you do find
>>>>>> someone you like and want to meet, it's best to meet them in a public
>>>>>> place. But there's nothing dangerous about just putting a profile up
>>>>>> and seeing what happens.
>>>>>> Some dating sites are free and others charge a fee for joining.
>>>>>> Interestingly, the site I used was free, and when I was visiting my
>>>>>> sister and her roommate they were checking out one of the paid sites.
>>>>>> I told them about the free site I was on and they looked at it and
>>>>>> said they thought the guys on the free site were a lot more attractive
>>>>>> and appealing than the guys on the paid one. So it's possible the
>>>>>> people you might meet on a free site are less "desperate" and hence
>>>>>> are better catches.
>>>>>> I'm sure there's a lot of debate about when to reveal blindness during
>>>>>> an online dating encounter. Some people put it in their profiles,
>>>>>> others wait until the first meeting and still others reveal it at some
>>>>>> point in the middle. I'd tend to treat it like a job interview and
>>>>>> reveal blindness after I've connected with someone online but before
>>>>>> we meet in person so they aren't totally shocked or freaked out when
>>>>>> they see me. Unfortunately rejections due to blindness can happen at
>>>>>> any point in the process. You'll have to decide whether you would
>>>>>> prefer to take that risk earlier on or to give them a chance to get to
>>>>>> know you before they learn about your blindness.
>>>>>> Regarding dating blind vs. sighted people: Like many of us I have done
>>>>>> both. I never consciously decided that I wanted to date a blind person
>>>>>> or a sighted person, and I would not recommend that line of thinking.
>>>>>> I simply dated guys with whom I felt a connection and who felt the
>>>>>> same way toward me, regardless of whether or not they were blind. I
>>>>>> will say that in some ways establishing the initial relationship was
>>>>>> easier with blind guys, because I didn't have to wonder about what
>>>>>> nonverbal signals they were sending or how they might interpret my
>>>>>> nonverbal signals. However, when I try to compare the relationship I
>>>>>> have had with my sighted boyfriend over the past three years with the
>>>>>> other relationships I have had with blind guys, I really can't think
>>>>>> of any major differences. I do think that regardless of blindness
>>>>>> status, it's important for you and your partner to share interests and
>>>>>> passions in common. NFB and blindness are passions that many of us
>>>>>> share, and they help bring many blind couples together. However, there
>>>>>> are other interests or passions you may share with sighted folks
>>>>>> around you, and finding a partner who shares one of those passions
>>>>>> with you can be similarly rewarding. In other words, instead of
>>>>>> deciding who to date based on whether they are sighted or blind, I
>>>>>> think it's more helpful to choose based on how much you share in
>>>>>> common with them. I know that for us blind folks it can be hard to
>>>>>> meet and connect with people at bars or large gatherings like singles'
>>>>>> parties. But if you can find communities of people that share your
>>>>>> interests-whether that be your local NFB chapter or student division,
>>>>>> classes, church groups or clubs you might be in-that's a much better
>>>>>> way to build lasting connections.
>>>>>> Arielle
>>>>>>
>>>>>> On 3/22/12, Nimer M. Jaber, IC³ <nimerjaber1 at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>> Oops, I missed a point: I wouldn't go to an NFB convention simply for
>>>>>>> the dating scene. I'm sure relationships do develop at things like
>>>>>>> that, however most people are going to be preoccupied with general
>>>>>>> sessions, exhibits, orientation around a huge massive hotel, etc etc
>>>>>>> to really pay attention to who's around them for dating.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Later.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> On 22.03.2012, Nimer M. Jaber, IC³ <nimerjaber1 at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>>> Hello Robin,
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Or you could just go ahead and do the online dating thing and learn
>>>>>>>> from it. It has turned out well for some, and not so well for
>>>>>>>> others.
>>>>>>>> As for the sighted vs. blind thing, I would ask what you want. Not
>>>>>>>> dating a blind person simply because you think you'll look cool and
>>>>>>>> more independent for dating a sighted person will limit your
>>>>>>>> options,
>>>>>>>> just like not dating a sighted person because you're afraid of being
>>>>>>>> rejected is crazy as well. We're all individuals. Many blind people
>>>>>>>> have underlying disabilities, some may not be adjusted to their
>>>>>>>> blindness completely, etc etc but you wouldn't have to necessarily
>>>>>>>> feel self-conscious about the blindness issues, your appearance, etc
>>>>>>>> etc. Sighted people in my experience are going to ask many
>>>>>>>> questions.
>>>>>>>> Especially at first, you'll probably have to do a whole lot more
>>>>>>>> educating than dating, and it might get annoying, but many are
>>>>>>>> willing
>>>>>>>> to learn and it could work out. As for good dating sites ... why not
>>>>>>>> just getting onto the social networks like Facebook and put your
>>>>>>>> status as single? Maybe attend some of the singles conferences that
>>>>>>>> are out there? And if someone interests you, then go after them
>>>>>>>> (whether online or not).
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Anyway, talk to you later and peace. May you have much luck with
>>>>>>>> your
>>>>>>>> dating search.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Nimer J
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> On 22.03.2012, Joshua Lester <jlester8462 at students.pccua.edu> wrote:
>>>>>>>>> Also, it has been proven, that there are people on chat sites, that
>>>>>>>>> pretend to be something, to get your attention, and then when you
>>>>>>>>> meet
>>>>>>>>> them, they're a criminal.
>>>>>>>>> Be careful, and meet people one on one, and in person.
>>>>>>>>> Come to the NFB convention, and you might meet someone, and oh yes,
>>>>>>>>> there are sighted members in the NFB, as well!
>>>>>>>>> Blessings, Joshua
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> On 3/22/12, Gloria G <gloria.graves at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>> Hi,
>>>>>>>>>> I have never gone on to any of the online dating sites, but I
>>>>>>>>>> would
>>>>>>>>>> be
>>>>>>>>>> very
>>>>>>>>>> careful because a person online is not as friendly or charming as
>>>>>>>>>> they
>>>>>>>>>> appear to be over emails. I have dated very few blind people and
>>>>>>>>>> find
>>>>>>>>>> that
>>>>>>>>>> there is always a focus on blindness in the relationship and I
>>>>>>>>>> feel
>>>>>>>>>> that
>>>>>>>>>> is
>>>>>>>>>> a negative thing at times because we all live with blindness on a
>>>>>>>>>> daily
>>>>>>>>>> basis and want to know we are more than our blindness. I have
>>>>>>>>>> found
>>>>>>>>>> there
>>>>>>>>>> are a lot of people open to dating a blind person expecially when
>>>>>>>>>> they
>>>>>>>>>> are
>>>>>>>>>> confident and out going. I have been in a relationship with a
>>>>>>>>>> sited
>>>>>>>>>> person
>>>>>>>>>> for 3 years and things are wonderful.
>>>>>>>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>>>>>>>>> From: "Robin" <robinmel71 at earthlink.net>
>>>>>>>>>> To: <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
>>>>>>>>>> Sent: Thursday, March 22, 2012 4:47 PM
>>>>>>>>>> Subject: [nabs-l] Dating & Sighted-Blind-Low Vision
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> Hello to everyone,
>>>>>>>>>>> I am just wondering if anyone has had any experience with online
>>>>>>>>>>> dating
>>>>>>>>>>> and if so what sites would you recommend? What experiences have
>>>>>>>>>>> you
>>>>>>>>>>> had
>>>>>>>>>>> with dating sighted people vs dating blind people? I look forward
>>>>>>>>>>> to
>>>>>>>>>>> hearing your stories.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> I seldom think about my limitations, and they never make me sad.
>>>>>>>>>>> Perhaps
>>>>>>>>>>> there is just a touch of yearning at times; but it is vague, like
>>>>>>>>>>> a
>>>>>>>>>>> breeze
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> among flowers.
>>>>>>>>>>> Hellen Keller
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>
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