[nabs-l] Question for you all

[Jedi Moerke]

David is right. There comes a time when our parents control over us   Starts from our own willingness to control ourselves.

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On Oct 14, 2012, at 5:30 PM, David <davidb521 at gmail.com> wrote:

> Hello. First of all, this sounds illegal. I assume that you are over 18, in which case, only you should have access to your bank account, unless you consented to granting her access. If I were in your situation, I would certainly look in to filing some sort of legal action against her for her unacceptable breach of privacy. Your personal financial situation is of course none of my business, but the fact is, she cannot legally dictate to you how you spend your personal money, however responsibly or irresponsibly. The only leverage she has is ultimately determined by you, and I know that that is a harsh statement. I wish you the best of luck.
> David Bouchard 
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> On Oct 14, 2012, at 6:19 PM, Jedi Moerke <loneblindjedi at samobile.net> wrote:
> 
>> You may want to see about a budgeting class. The class cannot only help you with your current issue, but it can also prepare you for the day when you do move out. I'm not sure what I would do if my mother put me in that situation. Good luck with that one. 
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>> On Oct 13, 2012, at 1:24 PM, "Koby Cox" <kobycox at gmail.com> wrote:
>> 
>>> Hello all,
>>> This past week my mom went on-line and looked at my bank account and saw
>>> that I was overdrawen. A doctors office takes out $110 every month to
>>> cover a procedure that I had done the amount that they take out Is what
>>> I'm responseible for paying because insurance didn't cover the rest of
>>> it. I'm fine with that however, My mom said that she was going to take
>>> my bank card away from me until next month and then we'll see If I get
>>> It back. She also informed me that I can't spend more than $100 unless I
>>> talk to her first. She said that If I don't like her rules then I can
>>> pack my stuff and get out. What do you all think about all of this?
>>> Right back soon,
>>> Koby.
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