[nabs-l] CanI dance if I want to?

[justin williams]

Get a guy then; it's cool.  That works.  Longg as he can dance a little, and
is a good teacher.  Tell him to move you your body for you at first so you
can get the movement.  In japah, that is how the black belts teach the white
belts.  That is how my instructor instructs me.  Also, if you don't drink,
then that is fine too.  That is just a trick I use.  You can do the same
thing with a cup of water, or a soda; it should work the same way.  If you
don't want to hang onto a cup like that, then any of the other methods will
work just fine.  You just got to mix and match my man.  Mix and match.

-----Original Message-----
From: nabs-l [mailto:nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Darian Smith
Sent: Monday, May 13, 2013 8:10 PM
To: National Association of Blind Students mailing list
Subject: Re: [nabs-l] CanI dance if I want to?

Hi listers:  should gender matter  in who teaches you?
 and  what would you suggest if you cannot or  choose not to  partake   in
alcoholic  beverages?
 I think these are very interesting points indeed,  Just curious as to other
ways you might go about it?
 Thanks Justin!

  Darian  
  
On May 12, 2013, at 3:59 PM, justin williams <justin.williams2 at gmail.com>
wrote:

> Get a friend, preferably a girl to teach you how to dance.  Sometimes 
> keeping a drink in your hand will give you an excuse not to dance.
> Personally, I avoid dance clubs like the plague if at all possible; 
> however, there are just times in social situations where you just have 
> to shake a leg.  Do the best you can.  Just move your hips and try to 
> keep up with the beat.  There are a lot of other people out there with 
> you who can't dance either.  They also look terrible.  If you drink, 
> it loosen's you up just a little.  It doen't make you better, you jus 
> think you are.  Smile just a little even if you don't like dancing, or 
> aren't very good at it.  The appearance of enjoyment, or hopefully you 
> are actually enjoying your self, lets everyone see that you are 
> confident; you can't dance and you know it, but you don't care.  It 
> helps.  I feel you man; I'm in the same boat as you accept I have 
> learned a few tricks to fake it until I can get off of the dance 
> floor.  I get fairly drunk on nights like that if I go out with a 
> group of people because I am using trips to the bar as an excuse not to
dance.  Remember, if possible, get a friend, especially a girl to teach you.
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: nabs-l [mailto:nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Darian 
> Smith
> Sent: Monday, May 13, 2013 6:36 PM
> To: National Association of Blind Students mailing list
> Subject: [nabs-l] CanI dance if I want to?
> 
> Hi all,
> Please  excuse  the slight 80's song reference,  but I am curious 
> about how you all go about attending social functions where dancing is 
> a part of the atmosphere?
> Do you decide to not  take part in it because you don't know how to dance?
> are you too shy?   Do you just get out there regardless?
> On Dancing, how do you learn how to dance  if you can't do what a lot 
> of folks do and watch it  on television  or the internet?
> Thanks!
> 
> Darian
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