[nagdu] question

[Garry and Joy Relton]

Row, I can't imagine experiencing that sort of control! Sometimes, we have
to negotiate with people and sometimes, as you found out, we don't. I find
that people who have to control are usually those who have feelings of
inadequacy and lack of control in their own life.

-----Original Message-----
From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf
Of Tamara Smith-Kinney
Sent: Friday, February 27, 2009 3:19 PM
To: 'NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog Users'
Subject: Re: [nagdu] question


Linda,

I once went to the grocery store with a friend, since she offered to drive
me there and was doing some shopping of her own.  I paid her for gas and
everything.  But she took it in her head that I didn't need fabric softener
and threatened to leave me there if I insisted on buying it.  Fabric
softener!  Needless to say, I did not go shopping with her again!

Epilogue:  I left the fabric softener behind, thinking we could discuss the
issue later and it was only fabric softener, after all.  Ha!  I should have
let her go have her snit and either walked home with my cane or called a
cab, since I was temporarily living way, way out there.  Live and learn, I
guess.  /smile/

My now ex-husband had a tendency to use his status as driver to be
controlling, but I stopped putting up with it and just found my own way home
a time or two.  /grin/  Then I quit putting up with him.  /grin/

Tami Smith-Kinney

-----Original Message-----
From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf
Of lindagwizdak at peoplepc.com
Sent: Friday, February 20, 2009 6:29 PM
To: NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog Users
Subject: Re: [nagdu] question

I agree.  I think no blind person should EVER be without a cane or dog while

out - even with a human sighted guide.  What if your human companion got 
pissed at you for something and just left you stranded sans a mobility aid 
(grin!).

Morris Frank, Seeing Eye founder, found himself in this situation and he 
would have given his eye teeth for a modern white cane and the training in 
using it!

Linda and Landon
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Pickrell, Rebecca M (IT)" <REBECCA.PICKRELL at ngc.com>
To: "NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog Users" 
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Sent: Friday, February 20, 2009 5:39 AM
Subject: Re: [nagdu] question


> Right, and how do you handle it say if you need to use the ladies' 
> room and Dear Old Dad can't guide you in? What happens too say if 
> you're at an event and you meet a cute guy (or girl for that matter) 
> who hasn't a clue how to guide you and you'd like to spend some extra 
> time sans the parents with this person?
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On 
> Behalf Of Buddy Brannan
> Sent: Friday, February 20, 2009 3:32 AM
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> Subject: Re: [nagdu] question
>
>
> On Feb 19, 2009, at 9:56 PM, Allison Nastoff wrote:
>
>> Usually, I don't carry a cane when doing sighted guide.
>
> I hope you never get stranded (even if accidentally) by your guide. 
> What plan do you have for that, should it ever happen?
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