[nagdu] Got a question for the list

[Ioana Gandrabur]

HI Mark,

Many good points have been made and I have nothing much to add. I do think
that if you had to live with your parents as you are getting the dog them
not being for it might cause problems with the dog and also between you and
them and maybe even you and the dog because of tensions. But since you are
going away it should be easier and they might even accept the dog better
once they see how you are doing together. That being said, I also would be
interested if you would want to share what your parents concerns against
getting a dog might be.

Good luck in finding what's right for you!

Ioana
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Cheryl Osborn" <chapalacheryl at gmail.com>
To: "NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog Users"
<nagdu at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Friday, April 30, 2010 10:05 AM
Subject: Re: [nagdu] Got a question for the list


> Hi Mark,
>
> I think that the answers given to you on this list are very good.  But
> I have a couple of questions for you.  Do you currently use a white
> cane?  And what are the reasons your parents give for not wanting you
> to get a guide dog?  Perhaps they have valid reasoning.  I would think
> that this is a good time for you to get a dog, but I am not familiar
> with your situation.
>
> On 4/30/10, William ODonnell <william.odonnell1 at yahoo.com> wrote:
>> Colleges and Universities are required to except or deny you based on
>> your
>> academic credentials only.  In regard to your parents, a boundary issue
>> can
>> come up if you are going to be living at home with them.  If you are
>> going
>> away to school, both the school has to permit you to have that dog and
>> your
>> parents do not really have a voice in what decision you make about
>> getting
>> the dog especially when you are of the legal age 18.
>>
>> --- On Fri, 4/30/10, Mark J. Cadigan <kramc11 at gmail.com> wrote:
>>
>>> From: Mark J. Cadigan <kramc11 at gmail.com>
>>> Subject: [nagdu] Got a question for the list
>>> To: "NAGDU Mailing List, the National Association of Guide Dog Users"
>>> <nagdu at nfbnet.org>
>>> Date: Friday, April 30, 2010, 8:03 AM
>>> Got a question for the list
>>> I am still working on convincing my parents to allow me to
>>> get a guide dog. I think I am going to apply and let the
>>> parents know once I am accepted and already going to a
>>> class. I will be leaving for college soon, and believe the
>>> only way to get a guide dog is to just go do it. What
>>> potential problems are there with this approach? By this I
>>> mean, will schools accept me without talking to my parents?
>>>
>>> I have not given up on convincing my parents. I think the
>>> process will be so much smoother with them supporting it.
>>> However there support is not a necessity. I will be living
>>> away at college and won't be seeing them regularly.
>>>
>>> Another question I have is, is there any literature out
>>> there promoting the use of a guide dog. Most of the
>>> literature published by organizations not affiliated with
>>> the guide dog schools is either against dogs, or neutral on
>>> the subject. Information published by the schools is biased
>>> in favor of dogs. My parents highly value the opinions of
>>> experts, so I think the key is to find a neutral expert that
>>> agrees with me.
>>>
>>>
>>> Thanks for all your help
>>> Mark
>>>
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> Cheryl in Mexico
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