[nagdu] a couple questions

[Tamara Smith-Kinney]

Doug,

We have similar legislation here in Oregon, however enforcement is not
something in which I have great confidence.

I do the patronizing bit, too, after the polite, then firm steps are
completed without the desired result. When I get to the point where I figure
rules of courtesy are out the window in this conversation, I also find
myself slipping into my attitude pose, which backs most people off.

Another favorite tool of mine is vocabulary!  Sometimes I think it would be
fun and satisfying to go with the 4-letter approach, but I have discovered
that the 4-syllable words strung together in complex sentences, delivered in
an even, or perhaps slightly lilting, tone absolutely inspire idiots to be
elsewhere!  Problem solved.  Since I tend to talk like a stinking textbook
anyway if I'm not paying attention, this ploy is not difficult to pull off
at will.

I have to try to pay attention sometimes so as not to have that same effect
on people I don't want to inspire to run screaming.  /smile/

Tami Smith-Kinney

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Of Doug Parisian
Sent: Wednesday, December 08, 2010 1:50 PM
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Subject: Re: [nagdu] a couple questions

I love your attitude insofar as the kissy kissy village idiots are 
concerned.  My retriever was like that; you couldn't distract him during 
work even if you shoved a salisbury steak under his nose.  Now My lab, total

opposite.

Talking of unwanted interference, my theory is, three strikes and you're 
out.  There are always the sneaks who will pet, oogle, or even pet a working

dog with no permission.  Even if they probably know better,

Strike 1:  I will ask them politely to stop their unrequested activity and 
explain that I need my dog for my safety.  That whole thing takes about 10 
seconds or less--no yelling, more like a friendly extended hellow and in the

vast majority of cases, we all continue on our merry paths.

Strike 2: Mr./Mrs./Ms nuissance, depending on time and my mood, will 
probably be addressed in a fairly loud voice and be treated ans spoken to in

the most patronizing manner I can muster at 5the time.  This may include 
demeaning terms like sonny, boy, creampuff, sweetypie, and very 
occasionally, requests like "blank off and die."

Strike 3:  Extremely rare, like maybe two or three times in a year, use of 
my referee whistle while poing at them with a general request to anyone in 
the area to gain a little support.  Where I live, there is legislation 
specific forbidding interference with a service animal with a possible 
initial fine of $5000.  I will send our legislation, with all it's inherrent

weaknesses to the list.

Cell phones may be used as a tool, especially if like the IPhone, they have 
built-in photo and movie possibilities; gotta love technology and the 
internet.

I once visited a store where some pest was petting my gyuide while I was 
busy transacting business and demanded, not asked, "and why not?"  The young

lady behind the counter got it right within half a second, "because it's not

your dog," was her reply.  Need I say more.

Doug: more tails ahead.


----- Original Message ----- 
From: "The Pawpower Pack" <pawpower4me at gmail.com>
To: "NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog Users" 
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Sent: Wednesday, December 08, 2010 12:31 AM
Subject: Re: [nagdu] a couple questions


> Tami,
>
> Yes, Laveau does do "the look" very well.   People seem to not pet her so 
> much because she won't give them the eye contact they're looking for 
> unless it's to give "the look."
>
> Sunday I was at a craft store and standing in line with my SSP (which is 
> kind of like an interpreter that helps me shop and such).  Some random 
> lady starts taking pictures of Laveau and is getting frustrated because 
> Laveau won't look at her even though she is doing her level best; making 
> kissing noises and talking baby talk to her.  I like that she is so 
> stand-offish with strangers.  By the time my SSP interpreted what the lady

> was doing/saying she had left which is lucky for her.
>
> Rox and Lady Laveau
>
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