[nagdu] some advice

[Tami Kinney]

Sorry to hear that, but it does sound like you're willing and able to
make the right choice for you in order to meet your needs. It is not
easy. Best for finding a good place!

Tami

On Fri, 2011-09-09 at 18:47 -0400, Chantel Cuddemi wrote: 
> Looks like I'll have to move. 
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf
> Of Sherry Gomes
> Sent: Friday, September 09, 2011 6:39 PM
> To: 'NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog Users'
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] some advice
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> Hey Chantel,
> 
> Your friend does have the right to refuse to allow you to have a guide dog
> in her home.  So, unfortunately, it will mean moving somewhere else, unless
> you can talk them into allowing it.  Still, my experience is that if people
> are hesitant, even if they seem to come around and accept, often they don't
> really.  It could become a very uncomfortable living situation for you and
> the dog.  But if you can move somewhere else, then enjoy your new dog when
> the time comes.  Good luck.
> 
> Sherry
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf
> Of Chantel Cuddemi
> Sent: Friday, September 09, 2011 4:32 PM
> To: 'NAGDU Mailing List, the National Association of Guide Dog Users'
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] some advice
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> Hi, 
> I have done the research and a guide dog would certainlyu benefit me.
> Second, she isn't my grandmother. We'ere not even related at all. 
> And, I am aware of the responsibilities of a guide dog. I didn't ask the
> list for advice because I am uncertain of having a dog. I only asked because
> I wanted your input. 
> Getting a guide dog has beeen a dream of mine since I lived in my old state.
> 
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf
> Of Nimer M. Jaber, IC³
> Sent: Friday, September 09, 2011 5:42 PM
> To: NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog Users
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] some advice
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> Hello,
> 
> Nope, you shouldn't. In fact, you shouldn't get a dog at all. ust my
> opinion. Now, I'll tell you why.
> 
> First, your grandmother has every right to refuse access to any animal
> in her house while you're still living with her. So you won't be able
> to impose your will on them. I guess you could try explaining to them
> the use that a dog would be to you and that they are highly trained
> not to be aggressive and to be calm and all that, but I doubt it would
> work.
> 
> Second point: You don't want a dog. If you did, you wouldn't be
> getting on this list asking a bunch of people you don't know for
> advice. If you want a dog bad enough, you would not deal with someone
> else imposing their will on you. Instead, you would save up the money,
> become independent, establish alternate living arrangements and then
> pursue getting a dog. The fact that you have to ask on this list means
> that you aren't certain about wanting a dog. A dog is a huge
> responsibility but it's one that I wouldn't trade for anything. It's
> up to you to do the research, however, to make absolutely certain that
> this is what you want to do if you want to do it. A dog is a living,
> breathing animal. A dog is not a pet, a stuffed animal or a lovey
> cuddly object that you can dress up in doll's clothes.
> 
> Thanks, and I hope I didn't offend anyone too badly with my bluntness.
> 
> Nimer J
> 
> On 09.09.2011, Chantel Cuddemi <jawsgirl87 at gmail.com> wrote:
> > Hi all,
> >
> > I need some advice. I am not sure what to do here. I am trying to convince
> > my friend that I am staying with her grandchild won't get hurt by my
> future
> > guide dog, but she and her kids have voted against me having one her at
> this
> > house.
> >
> > Should I consider moving to another area then get a dog? Please help.
> >
> > Chantel.
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