[nagdu] When is the Connection Too Much?

Wed Jan 11 15:00:17 UTC 2012

I'm not sure I agree.
Let's say we're talking about alcohol. If you handle it appropriately you'll be fine in most cases. But, there are people who regard any alcohol consumed by anybody else as a problem. Then you get people like Mick Jagger and when that guy tells you to slow down, he may have a real point.
So you have to know who's making the statement and why they are making it.
As with any other relationship, it can be difficult to see something as not being healthy when it's happening to you.
My question is why a person wouldn't at least listen to the opinions of people they hold dear.

-----Original Message-----
From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Dan Weiner
Sent: Wednesday, January 11, 2012 12:08 AM
To: 'NAGDU Mailing List, the National Association of Guide Dog Users'
Subject: Re: [nagdu] When is the Connection Too Much?

Well, guys, let's see, the relationship going overboard is probably your
opinion or the lady discussing it and not the opinion of the handler n
question.
As far as they are concerned, their relationship with their dogs is
fine--smile.

I think bonding and love between a human and a guide dog is a wonderful
thing and I love seeing fellow handlers with sincere love and respect for
their hounds.

Much better to observe than someone who acts as if the dog is a robot.

Now, again, I fall in to the same trap, that's my opinion and I think that
some people treat their dogs like a robot, it's not their opinion themselves
and they are comfortable with it.

So, how we relate with our dogs and how the bond is manifested in our lives
is just that, our bond and our lives and is not in my opinion something that
should be criticized.

Dan the man, Carter the nut

-----Original Message-----
From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf
Of Toni Whaley
Sent: Tuesday, January 10, 2012 7:44 PM
To: 'NAGDU Mailing List, the National Association of Guide Dog Users'
Subject: Re: [nagdu] When is the Connection Too Much?

Bill,

I personally think it's inappropriate to use the dog's name in a business
letter. Regarding having the run of the house, I think that depends on the
nature of the dog. If the dog tends to be overly friendly especially when
food is around, I think the dog should be in a crate or on a tiedown. Onn
the other hand, if the dog doesn't really care about company and tends to
stay out of the way or disappears, I think it's OK. Of course, there's the
problem that the guests themselves may be more of a problem than the dog;
that is, getting the dog too excited. I've had dogs of both types. I've also
tended to keep my dog out of sight on Haliween. evening, both to prevent the
dog from getting too excited and running out the opened door and/or scaring
some of the children.

Toni

-----Original Message-----
From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf
Of William Burley
Sent: Tuesday, January 10, 2012 7:10 PM
To: NAGDU
Subject: [nagdu] When is the Connection Too Much?

Hi all,

I hope everyone is well.  I had an interesting discussion today with a
longtime guide dog user.  She brought up the fact that some handlers seem to
take their relationships overboard with their guide dogs.

Some examples she gave were:

.         Including the dog's name in a professional e-mail signature

.         Allowing the dog to have run of the house, even when guests are
there

She gave some others but I am drawing a blank now.  I have not experienced
the two examples above but could see her point.  Have you guys dealt with
someone you thought took their relationship with their guide to an unhealthy
level?

Will

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