[nagdu] could have, would have, should have

[Natalie]

Yes, that's true.  It's all relative, and I'm sorry if my message was 
construed as saying that everyone would do such a thing.
Best,
Nat and Liam Joshua

----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Pickrell, Rebecca M (TASC)" <REBECCA.PICKRELL at tasc.com>
To: "'NAGDU Mailing List, the National Association of Guide Dog Users'" 
<nagdu at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Thursday, March 01, 2012 4:16 PM
Subject: Re: [nagdu] could have, would have, should have


> Isn't "giving up at the drop of a hat" a judgment call?
> Like all things, it's very easy to tell somebody "don't give up" when you 
> aren't the one living with the problem.
> Dan gave way more to this dog then I would have, that's for sure.
> I raise this because I wouldn't want somebody to say "This dog and I just 
> aren't getting it together, time to call it a day" and be told "keep 
> going, you need to try harder".
> It's a very fine line, and it's an individual line that nobody else can 
> really define.
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf 
> Of Natalie
> Sent: Thursday, March 01, 2012 5:13 PM
> To: NAGDU Mailing List, the National Association of Guide Dog Users
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] could have, would have, should have
>
> Hi Daniel,
> You gave it your all, and that's what counts.  You're not a failure. 
> There
> are other dogs out there who haven't been matched yet and will be a good
> match for you, I'm sure.  Unfortunately, there are too many who would give
> up at the drop of a hat, but you gave it your all, and don't beat yourself
> up over it.  Sending tailwags from LJ.
> Best,
> Nat and Liam Joshua
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "DJS" <falcoisking at comcast.net>
> To: "NAGDU Mailing List" <nagdu at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Sunday, February 26, 2012 1:16 PM
> Subject: [nagdu] could have, would have, should have
>
>
>> Hello all,
>>
>>
>>
>> I don't know if some of you remember me, but I was a participant in the
>> list
>> about 3 years ago. I had the guide dog, Scout. He was the one who ran me
>> into my pond, crashed me into the grocery cart and busted my tooth, etc.
>>
>> I had 2 trainers out from the school to work with me, but his behavior
>> never
>> really got above about a "c". I still kept working with him, because I
>> just
>> loved him so much, and he was such a loving dog.
>>
>> I always looked past running into an occasional doorway, or a post here
>> and
>> there.
>>
>> The final straw came last month when we were walking and a truck backed
>> out
>> of a driveway on a very busy street and knocked us both out into the
>> street.
>> The dog suffered no injuries thank goodness, but I suffered a concussion
>> and
>> several bruised ribs.
>>
>> As usual, he was not paying attention to what he was doing.
>>
>> To make a long story short, the school came and career changed him about 
>> 2
>> weeks ago.
>>
>> I am pretty much devastated.
>>
>> I know, and most of you at the time I got him, told me I should return
>> him,
>> but did I listen? NO.
>>
>> I so wish I had. I feel I have wasted so long a time. I really thought I
>> could make it work.
>>
>> The trainers kept telling me to work on different techniques, and I did. 
>> I
>> wanted it to work so badly. Of course when they picked him up, they told
>> me
>> it was a total mis-match from the beginning, and that I should never have
>> left the school with that dog.
>>
>> A lot of good that does now - over 3 and a half years later.
>>
>>
>>
>> This has been such a bad experience from the beginning, I don't know if I
>> will ever want to go through the experience again.
>>
>>
>>
>> I guess I am looking for some words of wisdom from you guys, and some 
>> help
>> to go through this grief I am feeling at losing my best friend, even
>> though
>> he was not the best guide dog.
>>
>>
>>
>> You can be critical of me too, just please not to hard just yet, because 
>> I
>> am so sad.  I only wish I knew then what I know now.
>>
>>
>>
>> Thanks for any support.
>>
>>
>>
>> Daniel
>>
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