[nagdu] Political Correctness ?? and rudness

[Pickrell, Rebecca M (TASC)]

I think that people just assume a dog can only guide a person who can walk.
I wonder why you would assume that people only think blindness can't happen if you're in a wheelchair? The way you wrote that conveys some very negative stuff, and I wonder if that is being conveyed so people think you are rude?

You don't have o answer anything you don't want to. You can always ask "Why do you want to know?" which can be a useful question, or you can answer with humor without answering the question

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From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Mardi Hadfield
Sent: Sunday, March 25, 2012 1:31 AM
To: nagdu at nfbnet.org
Subject: [nagdu] Political Correctness ?? and rudness

I have a political correctness question. I have been referring to my self
as legally blind. I don't call my self blind, as I feel that might mislead
other people into thinking that I am totally blind.I do have some
sight,though it is diminishing.I am also deaf in one ear.I don't refer to
my self as Deafblind as I can still hear. I just can't tell where that
sound is coming from.As a matter of fact, I seldom even mention that I have
a hearing problem.I have mentioned it on this list due to some of the
threds that have been discussed here. Is it the right thing to call my self
a legally blind person? If not, what should I say to people.I often get
asked if my dog is a wheelchair dog or a guide dog.They ask me, why do I
need a guide dog if I am using a wheelchair. I guess they think that only
people that can walk become blind?I actually dread talking about this as I
end up explaining all about how I have spinal stenosis and that is why I
use a wheelchair and then how I was affected by brain damage  and then
affected by macular degeneration, and that is why I am legally blind. Then
I have to explain legal blindness. I am a very private person and hate
answering all these questions. But some how they always ask.Some times I
just don't answer and then people think I am rude. All this while they are
usually petting my dog. How do others on this list handle this situation?
Mardi and Shaman and Tipton,future GDIT.

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