[nagdu] Story that I don't know what to think ab out

[Mark J. Cadigan]

Rebecca and Cindy



How am I refusing to use help? I am taking help from several people. For 
example, the guide dog school, suggestions from this list, and a couple of 
friends of mine who are lawyers. Before I do anything, I consult with my 
lawyer friend for his opinion.



This woman who offered to help is a wonderful advocate, and has helped me on 
several occasions. She has been helping from the side lines. I am trying to 
be a nice guy, because I will have to work with all the people in question 
for the next 4 years. I am only a freshman after all. I can't afford to make 
enemies, or even worse bring scrutiny or pressure down upon people in the 
department who are willing to help.



I only told her that I did not think a meeting would be a good idea after I 
called to set up a meeting, and got chewed out over the phone. Forcing the 
point, and having a face to face meeting will only serve to make the dean 
angrier. If I do have a face to face meeting, I will most certainly have 
someone with me as an advocate. Probably this professor who is willing to go 
to bat for me. But for now, I am pursuing other avenues.



The alternative avenues of approach that I am currently employing should 
have favorable results; however, I can't discuss them on list.



Thanks,

Mark