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[Deb Trevino]

Dear Joyce,

We are certainly here to listen and pray for you and your family.  Speaking 
for myself, and understanding that no one experiences grief the same way, 
having lost a spouse to unexpected medical issues, I am here to listen 
should you want to call.  Processing of this loss will take some time. 
Please know your feelings are all appropriate and permissible!

Blessings,

Deb Trevino
Candidate for ministry


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From: <Blindhands at aol.com>
To: <nfb-krafters-korner at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Tuesday, April 01, 2014 6:10 AM
Subject: [Nfb-krafters-korner] (no subject)


> Many thanks for all your thoughts.  A Special thanks for those   who have
> stepped up and making Krafters Korner run along smoothly.
>
> I hit home om Mondayas my kids gathered around me and I was with them and
> got thru the planning of the funeral.  That will take place on Thursday 
> and
> Friday this week.
>
> I am so numb over this all and my heart aches.  Basically, he had a  blood
> clot in his lung [which causethe last week shortness of breath, weakness]
> On Friday while in the VA Hospital breathing got worst, his hart rate went
> into  afebrillation a piece of the clot broke off and stopped his heart. 
> They
> asked me to allow them to administer  a clot bust ing medication and they
> told me they might even have to do surgery to remove the clot.  They had
> givine him Heprin which was a blood thinner to stop the clot from getting
> larger.    Phone calls started Friday morning 9 a.m. with the  last one
> telling me he died around 2 p.m.  I never got up there until the  early 
> evening.
> A friend drove him up to the BA hosp on Thursday  morning.  I didn't even
> know he had gone as I was on and off the phone  calling the hospital about 
> how
> to get him up there.
>
> Sorry for this if it is more then you wanted to know.
>
> I truly feel the VA hospital didn't do enough and too little to late   and
> never gave me phone calls, answers or follow ups.
>
> I found out while standing in the room with my husbands body from a doctor
> when I asked about the original statement from the doctors 3 weeks earlier
> That  according to a CT Scan he had colon cancer with a tumor that
> perferated the  colon wall.  The doctors told me Friday night he did not 
> have colon
> cancer.  Biopsy done  proved that.  Oddly enough they did 4 CT  scans 
> while
> he was in the hospital 3 weeks earlier  and one scan they told  me showed
> all that and then the others they could not visualize   it.  He went for 
> the
> colonoscopy and wanted to do another one with a better  cleaning out. 
> That
> was scheduled for April 4.  They had him off his  Coommadin  medication 
> since
> they discharged him.  Maybe if they kep  him in the hospital and did the
> colonoscopy  as that was what they told me  they  wanted to do while he 
> was
> there for the week and a half.  They  released him still in pain, 
> breathing
> was irregular, not eating and  diarrhea.  They failed him.
>
> Joyce  Kane
> _www.KraftersKorner.org_ (http://www.krafterskorner.org/)
> Blindhands at AOL.com
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