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sunshine
sunshine817 at cox.net
Tue Apr 1 12:33:22 UTC 2014
Hi, Joyce!
I am expressing my sincere condolences to you # respect to the death of your husband. I know how disheartening it must be that you didn't receive very accurate information. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Hugs
----- Original Message -----
From: Blindhands at aol.com
To: nfb-krafters-korner at nfbnet.org
Date: Tuesday, April 1, 2014 3:11 am
Subject: [Nfb-krafters-korner] (no subject)
>
>
> Many thanks for all your thoughts. A Special thanks for those who have
> stepped up and making Krafters Korner run along smoothly.
>
> I hit home om Mondayas my kids gathered around me and I was with them and
> got thru the planning of the funeral. That will take place on Thursday and
> Friday this week.
>
> I am so numb over this all and my heart aches. Basically, he had a blood
> clot in his lung [which causethe last week shortness of breath, weakness]
> On Friday while in the VA Hospital breathing got worst, his hart rate went
> into afebrillation a piece of the clot broke off and stopped his heart. They
> asked me to allow them to administer a clot bust ing medication and they
> told me they might even have to do surgery to remove the clot. They had
> givine him Heprin which was a blood thinner to stop the clot from getting
> larger. Phone calls started Friday morning 9 a.m. with the last one
> telling me he died around 2 p.m. I never got up there until the early evening.
> A friend drove him up to the BA hosp on Thursday morning. I didn't even
> know he had gone as I was on and off the phone calling the hospital about how
> to get him up there.
>
> Sorry for this if it is more then you wanted to know.
>
> I truly feel the VA hospital didn't do enough and too little to late and
> never gave me phone calls, answers or follow ups.
>
> I found out while standing in the room with my husbands body from a doctor
> when I asked about the original statement from the doctors 3 weeks earlier
> That according to a CT Scan he had colon cancer with a tumor that
> perferated the colon wall. The doctors told me Friday night he did not have colon
> cancer. Biopsy done proved that. Oddly enough they did 4 CT scans while
> he was in the hospital 3 weeks earlier and one scan they told me showed
> all that and then the others they could not visualize it. He went for the
> colonoscopy and wanted to do another one with a better cleaning out. That
> was scheduled for April 4. They had him off his Coommadin medication since
> they discharged him. Maybe if they kep him in the hospital and did the
> colonoscopy as that was what they told me they wanted to do while he was
> there for the week and a half. They released him still in pain, breathing
> was irregular, not eating and diarrhea. They failed him.
>
> Joyce Kane
> _www.KraftersKorner.org_ (http://www.krafterskorner.org/)
> Blindhands at AOL.com
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