[NFBMO] Something I really like from the June Monitor

[Gary Wunder]

[PHOTO CAPTION: Shannon Cook]

What Is Your "Of"?

by Shannon Cook

>From the Editor: Shannon Cook has been a member of the National Federation
of the Blind of South Carolina for over thirty years; in fact, she and I
came into the movement at about the same time and have been friends for
slightly longer. She is currently the affiliate secretary, NFB of SC
Scholarship Committee chair, Palmetto Convention Grant chair, and serves as
secretary for the boards of the Federation Center of the Blind, Rocky Bottom
Retreat and Conference Center for the Blind, South Carolina Association of
Black Leaders, SC Computer Science and Technology Division, and the SC
Association of Guide Dog Users, among other duties. I must remember to ask
her if and when she sleeps. She obtained her Master of Social Work from the
University of South Carolina. Shannon met her husband Steve through the
Federation, where he is a leader in his own right. They have been married
for twenty-one years and have three dogs. We often say that the word "of" is
the most important word in the name of our organization. When we talk about
why, we usually say it is because we are blind people speaking and acting on
our own behalf, not others speaking or doing good works for our benefit. But
in this beautifully written article, Shannon invites us to consider other
aspects of the meaning of "of," particularly as it relates to fostering
inclusion, which is one of the Federation's core values. Here are her
thoughts: 

 

The word "of" is often seen as a small, almost unremarkable part of our
everyday language. Yet its role is far from insignificant, especially when
we examine it as it relates to our place in the National Federation of the
Blind. It is a term that links, connects, and defines relationships among
people, things, and ideas, and when placed within inclusive frameworks, it
can carry powerful connotations of unity, shared experiences, and collective
belonging. In the framework of the National Federation of the Blind, "of" is
everything we stand for. It connects each member to our collective
experience of blindness. It connects each member to the greater organization
as an integral part of the whole, no more or less important than the other
members, but part of the entire structure. The "of," fittingly positioned
smack-dab in the middle of the name National Federation of the Blind,
reflects that we, the blind, comprise the voice of the organization through
our expertise and firsthand knowledge of blindness. We are the ultimate
authority on blindness because of "of." We are not "for" in the sense that
others decide for us; we are our own leaders within our movement for
equality, change, integrity, inclusiveness, accessibility, growth, and
success. "Of" means that we belong.

The Linguistic Role of "Of"

For those of you who know the grammar nerd that I am, I could not skip this
bit of background. In its most basic sense, "of" is a preposition. It serves
as a connector between a noun and another part of the sentence. While its
primary function is to denote possession, origin, or association, it can
also show parts of a whole or define relationships. This seemingly small
word, therefore, acts as a bridge, linking individuals and groups to larger
structures, whether in the context of society, culture, or beliefs.

For example, in the phrase "members of the community," the word "of" not
only connects the members to the community but suggests a shared identity or
affiliation. It is this use of "of" that holds relevance when discussing
inclusion-it implies belonging, being part of a collective, and establishing
connections among individuals and larger social systems.

"Of" and the Concept of Inclusion

At its heart, inclusion is about recognizing, welcoming, and valuing the
diversity of people, ideas, and perspectives. It is about fostering
environments where everyone feels that they belong, regardless of their
background, identity, or abilities. When we use the word "of" in this
context, it can represent a powerful tool in shaping inclusive narratives
and fostering understanding.

Consider the expression "a society of equals." Here, "of" does more than
just indicate that equality is a feature of society-it expresses that
society is made up of equal individuals. The use of "of" frames the concept
of inclusion in a way that everyone, regardless of their differences, is
seen as an integral part of the whole. In this way, the word becomes a
building block for inclusive language, which seeks to empower and unite
rather than divide. In the National Federation of the Blind, we often hear
that we are an organization "of" the blind, not only "for" the blind. A
one-word change on the surface would seem barely relevant to the meaning,
but by using "of" we are all equal parts of the whole as community members.
We all have a seat at the table. No one's lived experience is more or less
valuable than another's. 

To put it in a different frame, imagine that the National Federation of the
Blind is a giant puzzle. Each member is a piece. Without everyone, the
puzzle is not complete. No one piece is the same as the next. Some are
shaped differently, have a combination of colors, or have sharp edges rather
than rounded. The intersectionality of features is individual to each piece.
In our movement, we are each a piece; no one is more important than the
next. Each piece is individual. Some are similar. Maybe we have common
family histories, home states, gender identities, etc., but the unique
combination of characteristics is what makes us an irreplaceable part of the
entire beautiful picture. The puzzle is not complete without all its pieces
in place. 

How Do You Envision Your "Of"?

I have been a Federationist for most of my life, thirty-four years to be
exact. I identified with the Federation from day one because the Federation
philosophy gave me the language to articulate my belief that blindness did
not make me less than my sighted peers. When I first became a member, I
learned the structure, boards, and interplay among local, state, and
national levels of the organization. Shortly thereafter, I was asked to help
organize and lead one of the smaller chapters of our state. I joined and
participated in the Student Division. (We still refer to our student group
this way rather than adopting the "South Carolina Association of Blind
Students" formulation, because the acronym SCABS sounds gross!) The more
involved I got, the more I wanted to get involved. I was accepted in a way I
never felt before in my life. Blindness was the characteristic that gave us
all a connection, but it became secondary in our interpersonal relationships
because we all shared it. No one was known as "that blind person," as we
often are in other contexts. We had deep discussions about music, books,
politics, religion, myths of blindness, and our own misconceptions. Because
of our particular perspectives, we were stronger together. Each member found
their purpose and sought to fulfill it. 

The question I pose to readers is, "What is your of?" What do you bring to
the Federation that excites you and keeps you invested in our future? You
may have a busy, overwhelming personal life, and attending monthly chapter
meetings is the maximum you can manage right now. If that is your Of, that
is fantastic. If you can plan speakers, chair committees, organize
fundraisers, donate to the cause, recruit new members, live by example,
teach alternative techniques to newly blind members, make reminder calls,
solicit convention sponsors, or anything else, that is wonderful. We can all
do something. Your capacity to be involved can and will likely change over
time. The key is to realize what you can do. Often it is more than you may
imagine. If you do not see a niche for your talents, make one; accept the
challenge to develop a project or program where your skills will be best
used. 

cccEvery one of us, by virtue of our membership, bears a responsibility to
further the aim of the National Federation of the Blind: to plan for the
present, appreciate and acknowledge the contributions of the past, and make
provisions for the future of the NFB. Membership and belonging also come
with a collective responsibility to carry us forward through trials,
triumphs, stumbles, and successes.

Find your place; don't be the missing piece.

Take your place in our big, beautiful "of."

 

 

Gary Wunder

gwunder at earthlink.net <mailto:gwunder at earthlink.net>  

 

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