[stylist] Thought Provoker About Love

[Judith Bron]

No marriage, regardless of who it is between, is without conflict.  It is 
overcoming those conflicts that dictate weather the marriage is going to 
work or not.  If the conflict isn't a physical disability, it is something 
else.  The stats today are that since the economy is bad more people are 
getting divorced.  In a perfect world money shouldn't make any difference, 
but we live in an imperfect world.  Let each person decide for him or 
herself who that right person is for them.  There are enough factors to 
consider in who that special someone is.  Let's not add to them.
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "John Lee Clark" <johnlee at clarktouch.com>
To: "'NFBnet Writer's Division Mailing List'" <stylist at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2009 3:47 PM
Subject: Re: [stylist] Thought Provoker About Love


> Hey:
>
> What I meant to say is that there is this advantage in blind-blind
> couplings.  Not that the blind all should marry other blind people.  And I
> might add, there are many other advantages.
>
> I am not married to a deaf-blind person.  My wife is deaf.  We are happy.
> But I can tell you there were cultural differences that created all manner
> of conflicts, that would not have been there at all if I married a
> deaf-blind person.  But that's not to say that a relationship with a
> deaf-blind person wouldn't have its own conflicts.  The conflicts would be
> just different.  But I suspect that if it's a same-culture marriage, then
> the conflicts would be the common ones, not peculiar ones.
>
> The key is still love and chemistry and all that.  But on the more
> superficial levels, aren't there certain conveniences if it's a 
> same-culture
> union?
>
> John
>
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