[stylist] DBG 7 and domestic violence

[helene ryles]

Barbara: Thanks for your comments.
Mr Murat is weak.
He is also in love with this woman despite her nature. You would be
amazed by things people over look when they are in love with someone.
I've been through that sort of thing myself so I know first hand the
kind of things one will do when one is in love with someone. Even
after that person hurts me. Love is illogical and doesn't have any
sense.
I did meet a certain person who I was in love with. I also took drugs
at the time which did have an affect of weakening thing my character.
I'm a lot stronger now, but I've not been out with anyone else since
then.
I actually had a pillow stuffed over my head and I couldn't breathe. I
felt my life was in danger. The social worker got involved but I ended
up denying everything. I told them nothing had really happened (which
wasnt true). That has to be one of the dumbest things I ever did in my
life since it made it harder when I eventually decided to leave.
That was a few months after getting my second guide dog. I spent 3
weeks at guide dog training centre. Those 3 weeks were a great help to
me. When I went back I was differant so I eventually left and made
myself intentionally homeless since I still didn't want to talk about
what happened there.

I didn't leave because of what they were doing to me, but they Jilli
was being drawn in too. Their dog was attacking her and she had to
watch me being attacked too. If it wasn't for Jilli I think I would
have stayed longer.

Helene
Helene

On 16/09/2009, Barbara Hammel <poetlori8 at msn.com> wrote:
> What if he was an exceedingly weak person who had no resources if his
> current situation were to change?
> Maybe he knows the truth but is more scared of her than the consequences of
> what she does?
> I also thought Liza was angered too quckly.
> Barbara
>
> If wisdom's ways you wisely seek, five things observe with care:  of whom
> you speak, to whom you speak, and how and when and where.
>
> --------------------------------------------------
> From: <LoriStay at aol.com>
> Sent: Wednesday, September 16, 2009 10:01 AM
> To: <stylist at nfbnet.org>
> Subject: Re: [stylist] DBG 7 (completely new chapter)
>
>> David, a social worker, says no one is in denial that long, and after he
>> realized the truth, he wouldn't go back to denial.
>> Lori
>> In a message dated 9/15/09 6:31:05 PM, dreamavdb at googlemail.com writes:
>>
>>
>>>
>>>
>>> Why does it take the husband four children to realize what a monster he
>>> married?
>>> He is in denial. He loves this woman even though he must have realised
>>> what she's like.
>>>
>>
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