[stylist] To ponder- taken to another level

Sat Feb 9 15:02:02 UTC 2013

Yes, Bridgit, I had just responded to this topic before I read your note 
here. I spoke of my husband's inability to spell - which he would not 
appreciate me talking about, I am sure. We will be  married 52 years in 
April,; I guess he would not be surprised that I said this about him.

Yes, I also have retained my visual way of doing things but have had to 
adapt to make it work because I have to do most things non-visually these 
days. I am on the Krafters-Korner NFB list and have received many good tops 
there to help me re-learn how to do things I used to do. That group has been 
wonderful in helping each other through challenges we have in doing things 
non-visually.

I have never been blind in my dreams - and I dream constantly. I am never 
blind in my own consciousness unless I am faced with an uncomfortable or 
frightening situation and then I find that I become very blind at times. 
Mostly that happens when I am out and come upon someone who knows me well, 
and they do not know that I can tell they are there - and they choose to be 
silent and not even acknowlege I am there. This happened yesterday at the 
beauty shop.  I was aware that a woman came into the shop as she passed by 
me. I had a feeling I might know her because my hairdresser called her 
"Peg." That is an unusual name, and I have only known about two Pegs or 
Peggy's in my life. So I was alert, wondering if this was one that I know. 
Shortly, she was seated in the waiting area and I came in there to get my 
purse to pay for my services. I was only 3 feet from her, and she was facing 
me. I see shadows, but no details, so I could tell the person was looking 
directly at me. Absolute quiet! Not a hint that she knew me.  As I had been 
listening to her for awhile, I recognized her voice as she spoke with 
others. It was definitely a lady from my knitting group who has known me for 
a couple of years. I have sat with her in small groups of knitters at 
different homes. I have been in her home on several occasions. Yet, when she 
ran into me at the hair dressers, she chose to be quiet and wait it out - 
not in any way indicating we knew each other. My husband arrived, and as we 
drove home I told him what has just happened to me. This is the kind of 
thing I mean, when I say at times I feel very blind. This is the kind of 
encounter only a blind person would have - because she has no idea I can 
tell who she is, so she chose to ignore me.

My daughters and grand daughters often tell me how people will stare at me 
because they see me walking with a long white cane. It amazes them how a 
perfect stranger will stand beside me in line at a restaurant and actually 
turn around and be looking directly at me because they think I cannot see 
them. But, I can tell they are doing it. It is times like this when I 
"accidently" hit them with my cane as I walk by.

Lynda

----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Bridgit Pollpeter" <bpollpeter at hotmail.com>
To: <stylist at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Saturday, February 09, 2013 3:29 AM
Subject: [stylist] To ponder- taken to another level

> Lynda,
>
> I agree with you on this topic. Despite my blindness, I'm a very visual
> person. I lost my sight nine years ago, but I continue to be an
> extremely visual person.
>
> I have learned Braille though, and studies have shown that when learning
> Braille, even when not able to see at all, the brain is using its visual
> aspect.
>
> Each Braille character represents a letter in the alphabet and the exact
> punctuation as print. Essentially it's a tactile form of print. People
> assume it's paramount to a foreign language, but Braille is the exact
> same language using the same rules for grammar, punctuation and
> spelling, just in a tactile form. Various languages have their version
> of Braille since many languages have nuances.
>
> I too have wondered how people who have never been able to see visualize
> things. I once asked a friend if he "saw" his dreams, and he said he
> dreams with his other senses, which is very interesting.
>
> I also met a fellow Federationist who is totally blind and always been,
> and she was an art major at one of the big universities in Texas. Of
> course there are blind medical doctors and engineers along with others
> working in what would seem like very visual fields, and this doesn't
> cover all the interests and hobbies like crafts, cars and athletics.
>
> I think more and more blind people are facing challenges, and instead of
> thinking about limitations, they are figuring out how to hurdle that
> obstacle.
>
> I do agree that I've met several blind people who misspell words
> frequently, but I don't know if this is due to an inability to spell, if
> they were not taught correctly or if they just don't edit before sending
> material. I think a lot of people have this problem, blind and sighted.
> JAWS is great for this because you actually hear the word, that is if
> you take time to read through what you wrote, grin. But yes, I think
> people who only know Braille can find difficulties when switching to
> print on a keyboard. Many choose to use a Braille display and/or Braille
> keyboard. I' not saying all Braille users are like this, but I have met
> many who are.
>
> Ultimately, these things are most likely unique to individuals and not
> necessarily a result of a disability. If you can't spell when blind,
> chances are good you couldn't spell if sighted, smile.
>
> Sincerely,
>
> Bridgit Kuenning-Pollpeter, editor, Slate & Style
> Read my blog at:
> http://blogs.livewellnebraska.com/author/bpollpeter/
>
> "If we discover a desire within us that nothing in this world can
> satisfy, we should begin to wonder if perhaps we were created for
> another world."
> C. S. Lewis
>
>
>
> Message: 1
> Date: Fri, 8 Feb 2013 13:02:00 -0500
> From: "Lynda Lambert" <llambert at zoominternet.net>
> To: "Writer's Division Mailing List" <stylist at nfbnet.org>
> Subject: Re: [stylist] Quote to ponder - taken to another level
> Message-ID: <D52994C7F7964817A957168910B552B3 at Lambert>
> Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1";
> reply-type=original
>
> This is a really good question, Robert.
> I have noticed that so many blind people spell things so wonky, and
> maybe
> this is why. I always wonder is spelling is  really taught and learned
> visually. I really have no experience with any of the discussion on
> Braille
> because I do not use it - I do everything with electronics and some
> things
> with a CCTV.   I have only had sight loss for 5 years, so I really have
> no
> idea how blind children learn things like spelling, grammar, formatting,
> and
> punctuation. To me, they are all visual, and it is very hard for me to
> understand it any other way - well, I really don't understand it any
> other
> way. When I am reading (listening to a voice on a machine) I am still
> listening visually. I see it in my mind, and if I cannot see it that
> way,
> it's confusing to me.  Auditory skills  would rate very low  for me.
> Everyone has strength in certain skills and ways of learning - and I am
> a
> Visual learner above all else. That did not change - I still have to be
> able
> to SEE it to remember it - I have to stop and SEE a picture in my mind
> before it sticks with me.
> Writing and reading, for me, has always been a visual experience.  This
> makes me wonder, can a person who has always been blind be a Visual
> learner?
> And, then, I wonder, how does a blind person visualize things?  These
> are
> some things I am thinking about and working with a blind painter friend
> to
> put together an exhibition on how people  see and visualize.
>
>
>
> _______________________________________________
> Writers Division web site
> http://www.writers-division.net/
> stylist mailing list
> stylist at nfbnet.org
> http://nfbnet.org/mailman/listinfo/stylist_nfbnet.org
> To unsubscribe, change your list options or get your account info for 
> stylist:
> http://nfbnet.org/mailman/options/stylist_nfbnet.org/llambert%40zoominternet.net
> 