[stylist] Writing exercise: creative nonfiction- Life Lessons

[Debby Phillips]

Bridgit, I feel the conflict, the longing, the desire to be like 
your mother.  And your mother's conflict, too.  I understand so 
much, about you, but also about how mothers and daughters send 
mixed signals to each other.  Mom: Oh, Debra, I don't want you to 
be heavy.  You look so pretty when you are slim." Mom: "Do you 
want some ice cream?" Mom: You are very smart, you should go to 
college, and get an education." Mom: I hope you find a good man 
who will be good to you." Mom: You should always have money of 
your own.  You don't ever want to be totally dependent on some 
man." Mom: I need to get the mail before your dad sees....  Lol.  
No wonder we're all mixed up!

But I loved the imagery, the scents, the tastes, all that those 
images brought to mind.  I could taste the banana bread, the 
Snickerdoodles, the chocolate chip bars.  Thanks for making me 
hungry.  Lol.     Debby