[stylist] FW: keeping poems, for Robert, Bridgit, Lynda, and Barbara, others

Sat Jun 13 15:59:10 UTC 2015

wow, Bridgit, you sure have a first hand experience with this dilemma 
through your sister.  That situation is too bad for her and sorry it 
happened to her.  It would be hard to recover after this kind of situation 
because it could certainly keep her from other employment in the future.  I 
hope this helps her see her role in the community in a new way.

In my world, to have a job is an honor - I believe in the integrity and 
privilege of holding a job.  I think work is very good for us as humans, and 
it is a vocation or calling and much more than a paycheck or putting in some 
hours each week.  Parker Palmer has written a number of excellent books on 
the value of work. in our lives.   I have loved all my positions and all the 
small jobs I did over the years as I matured. For each of them, I believed 
in working as though I personally owned  the company so it would never enter 
my mind to speak ill of the company, the employers, or the other folks who I 
worked with.  My husband never had to listen to me speaking negatively about 
the school or my students - it just never happened.  It is called 
collegiality and our tenure track  positions depend on being able to be  a 
positive part of the programs.  I hear from many of my former students and I 
am able to see their development in their field of study, so I know 
integrity and honor in the work place and personal life exists yet today - 
young people still have a commitment to being the change that makes the 
world a better place to live, as Gandhi asked us
to be. I see education as teaching us all  how to be a servant leader. 
There are so many fine examples of people who have lived in this way and 
they have truly become the change that changes the world - one by one.  For 
social media, it's good to ask, "Will this thought I am going to write lead 
me to where I want to be?  Weill what I write today take me to a good 
place?"  Lynda

From: Bridgit Kuenning-Pollpeter via stylist
Sent: Saturday, June 13, 2015 11:04 AM
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Subject: Re: [stylist] FW: keeping poems, for Robert, Bridgit, Lynda,and 
Barbara, others

I think employers should not be allowed to search social media when hiring 
or to keep an eye on current employees. As long as you are doing your job 
and not bringing illegal or unethical practices to work, it should not 
matter what you do in your private life. Yes, there is the potential for a 
lot of grey area here, for example, a pastor out posting pictures of 
themselves doing illegal things, or a school bus driver posting comments 
about breaking speed limits. But again, social media should not be a hunting 
ground for employees or a means in which to low-jack employees. If a concern 
is had about an employee, actions can be taken to investigate, but for the 
most part, what a person does in private, whether shared on social media or 
not, should have no bearing on their job, unless completely illegal. 
However, this does happen. My sister was fired from a job because she put up 
negative comments about her boss on Facebook. Since this is currently 
allowed, yes, I would be very careful about what you post since you never 
know who will see it or what they will do with certain information.

Bridgit

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From: stylist [mailto:stylist-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Lynda Lambert 
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Sent: Friday, June 12, 2015 2:30 PM
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Subject: Re: [stylist] FW: keeping poems, for Robert, Bridgit, Lynda, and 
Barbara, others

Jackie, and all,
I met a woman last week who works for a large corporation in KY - she told 
me they hired someone to work full time at this corporation just to troll 
the internet and read face book postings by the employees - she said they 
have fired many people due to internet comments, photos, etc.
If you Google Search your name, you may be surprised what comes up if you 
are on the internet very much - comments from blogs and Face Book, etc.
I would think that an editor or publisher would definitely do a search to 
see whats "out there" by and from an author they consider for publication.
It would be really disappointing to be passed by because you posted 
something without thinking of the possibilities ahead.

My daughter is a teacher and she has had fellow teachers lose their jobs 
just because they posted vacation photos, with liquor in their hands - my 
daughter does not do FB at all any more because of what could happen is 
someone wrote something on her page, or if someone would not like a comment 
she has made...

There is no such thing as privacy on the internet - really. Things get 
hacked all the time and you never know who would copy/paste your work or 
send it to anyone else regardless of rules.

I don't know anything about judges or contests - but I trust people to be 
fair if they are in that role - typically anyone selected as a judge would 
be well qualified for it otherwise there would be no point to it.
I have judged many things and certainly looked at each entry for what it was 
without thought of who may have created the piece. I think any other judge 
would be impartial as well in this kind of situation.  Here's to a good say 
of writing.  Lynda

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From: Jackie Williams via stylist
Sent: Friday, June 12, 2015 12:43 PM
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Subject: Re: [stylist] FW: keeping poems, for Robert, Bridgit, Lynda,and 
Barbara, others

Lynda, Bridgit, and those mentioned above.

Thanks so much for your comprehensive responses. I did not know that Google 
would have such detail about a person, or that Facebook was fair game.
Several responses above indicate that this list is safe. But here is a very 
specific instance of my question.
A while ago I posted a flash fiction piece, something I had never written 
before. I was overjoyed with the response, and particularly from Robert, who 
said he was sending it to the Nebraska group because he thought they would 
enjoy it.
It was a definite ego-booster. But on reflection, I feel I can never submit 
it, because I do not know if that group is a list like ours, or who there 
might have shared it outside their group. I never got any feedback from 
anyone outside this group.
And so, a short short career in fiction writing. Or should I take a chance 
and submit it elsewhere? Also, when you have put something on this list for 
a critique or comment, can you then legitimately send it to the NFB contest?
The judges would know who wrote it, and that is strictly against any rules I 
know about.

Jackie Lee

Time is the school in which we learn.
Time is the fire in which we burn.
Delmore Schwartz

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From: stylist [mailto:stylist-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Lynda Lambert 
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Sent: Wednesday, June 10, 2015 3:20 PM
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Subject: Re: [stylist] FW: keeping poems

Jackie's point is certainly a good one - for those of us who work with 
publishers and journals, we cannot post our work for many publications will 
not accept anything that has been published previously anywhere at all - 
even on your own Facebook page. That is a sobering fact, and it comes back 
to bite  us if we do it and we would  lose credibility with the publishers 
who work with us.  I do not enter contests much at all - only two in a year, 
because I am in the groups, so that is not my concern.  But I do want to 
continue to have my work appear in publications where I am paid for my  work 
and would never consider sending the editors  anything that was published 
anywhere else unless it is specified in the rules for Submissions that it is 
ok to do so. My interest and expertise is in essays and poetry - so that is 
what I choose to comment on typically in the group.  Just keeping up with my 
own work keeps me hopping.  This all works exactly like  gallery and museum 
art exhibitions - the higher quality exhibition venues  will not show work 
that has appeared an any other shows unless it is part of a traveling 
exhibition and in that case the entire show travels all over the states and 
abroad with the show.  - the best galleries want exclusive rights.  This is 
all fascinating, isn't it!

Another good point is that things we write and post on the internet, even in 
groups, is often available when you do a google search on that person and 
their work.  Particularly anything you have put on Facebook - even if you 
delete, it is still available through google search.  I have to ask myself, 
"Is it worth being banned from a publication because of something I posted 
on the internet in the past?"  It's a no-brainer, isn't it! If in doubt - 
don't do it. Lynda

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From: Jackie Williams via stylist
Sent: Wednesday, June 10, 2015 5:21 PM
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Subject: [stylist] FW: keeping poems

Barbara, and all, a response that I wanted all to get and respond to.

Jackie Lee

Time is the school in which we learn.
Time is the fire in which we burn.
Delmore Schwartz

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From: Jackie Williams [mailto:jackieleepoet at cox.net]
Sent: Tuesday, June 09, 2015 7:53 AM
To: 'Barbara Hammel'
Subject: RE: keeping poems

Barbara,
Your point is well taken. There might be a subtle difference between my 
critique group and this list, this being electronic, and the other hard 
copies.
This was addressed some time ago by Bridgit and Robert, that this list is a 
group meant for critiquing and sharing, and a contest should not disqualify 
a poem because it is posted here. I agree it should not, however recently a 
poem was disqualified because the National Federation of State Poetry 
Societies found it somewhere on the internet. Searches are pretty 
comprehensive these days I am told.
I have also collected some of the poems from members here, particularly when 
they introduce a new form, like Myrna with her tumbling tercets and 
cascading quatrains, and your  poem about seeing letters and certain things 
in colors which describes a certain eye condition I can never remember the 
name for. Also, things like Lynda's relating of her strategy for writing 
that 39 line poem with the same six words repeated in six stanzas in a 
prescribed manner, with another 3 lines at the bottom. I describe this 
because my memory for the word for certain forms sometimes escapes me now.
It always comes back, but not when I need it.
It is not that I do not trust the ones on this list, but that contests are 
pretty specific about not publishing or putting your work on anything if you 
are submitting it to them, unless they say you may have simultaneous 
submissions. I have approximately fifty poems in submission at this moment, 
and I do not want to risk jeopardizing them.
Also, on a personal level, I have shared my long manuscript with its added 
"A Battered Woman's Glossary, A Ludicrous Lexicon of Legal terms, with seven 
different critiquers. With their critique, " five returned the manuscript 
plus the Glossary, and two kept the Glossary saying they wanted to show it 
to someone, and whoever they shared it with never returned it.
This manuscript has been submitted to10 contests in the past, and I am 
always afraid that I will get a notice that that Glossary is someone else's.
As poets, we are encouraged to save favorite lines, or favorite poems, and 
even to make "erasure" poems from then, where you can erase half of that 
persons poem, rework the rest, and claim it as your own, being sure to give 
credit to the original poet. But already, some of these are being legally 
challenged.
The pace of change in copywrite laws is moving and getting much more 
complicated by the internet. I wish it were not so. And the argument by many 
is that there is nothing that has not been said before, so they should be 
able to use anything that has been used before, thus evading the law.
In the meantime, I agree that so many submissions here are worthy of saving 
primarily as teaching tools for methodology, or form, or for examples of 
creative use of language.
I hope this mixed message makes sense to you.

Jackie Lee

Time is the school in which we learn.
Time is the fire in which we burn.
Delmore Schwartz

-----Original Message-----
From: Barbara Hammel [mailto:poetlori8 at icloud.com]
Sent: Sunday, June 07, 2015 1:30 PM
To: jackieleepoet at cox.net
Subject: keeping poems

If one has no intent of ever sharing another's poem without their permission 
is it so bad to keep them? I have your A Rainbow Came Down poem — probably 
not your final copy — because I liked it. Will anyone ever know I have it?
No except that it's one by you. Would I ever print it or give to anyone 
without asking you? No.
I have five or seven of Myrna's, too. If a book were out that had all of 
them, I'd probably buy it for the final printed versions of them. Guess I 
don't make a competitive or smart writer, huh. Oh, and I'd NEVER claim 
another's work as my own.
Barbara
Sent from my iPhone

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