[blindkid] School cane O/M issues
Albert J Rizzi
albert at myblindspot.org
Tue Oct 20 00:29:44 UTC 2009
I am appalled by what you said about the o&m instructor used by your school district. As a recent entrant into the blind community I find that all to often there are way to many malcontents in the blind community who impose their generationally nurtured hopelessness and overall apathy about working blindness in an empowering manner. It is not and has not been a death sentence for me. But all to often I come across individuals meant to help me to garner independence yet they look at me as if I had two heads when I challenge them on their antiquated approaches to helping the blind. All to often the bar is set to low for our blind students and it seems that mediocrity is the new standard for success in all things. I am not sure how effective your states commission for the blind is, but perhaps you could start there, Or perhaps you could reach out to the lighthouse international in nyc to find out if they have offices in your state. They have a wonderful pre-k program complete with children of all visual abilities. I cannot believe that the school is placing blame on your daughter and labeling her a behavioral disorder without giving her the tools she needs to be safe and navigate life and play as adeptly as other children do, I mean, and I have said this before, if she was in a wheel chair would they deny her that tool to safely traverse the school and all it has to offer? I think not. You might need to get tougher on them and insist they deliver the least restrictive environment which promotes independence and empowers your daughter. Do a Google of Thomas Hehir he is a professor at Harvard university. I think his writings and findings will pleasantly surprise you and give you more ammunition to present to the school and to that lame o&m instructor .
Albert J. Rizzi
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From: blindkid-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blindkid-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Doreen Franklin
Sent: Monday, October 19, 2009 7:42 PM
To: (for parents of blind children)NFBnet Blind Kid Mailing List
Subject: Re: [blindkid] School cane O/M issues
Heather -- THANK YOU!!!!
We are parents of a 5 yr old partially sighted child who has a loss of peripheral, esp lower peripheral vision, among other eye conditions. She has to be constantly monitored for glaucoma and retinal detachment with the congenital cataracts she had.
Our district continues to DENY services. WE have put a cane in her hand as of March 09 BUT the district will not provide O&M services, including expanded core curriculum (protective techniques, mapping, spatial awareness, etc). They are "claiming" that the O&M evals done in Sept-Oct 2008 do not indicate the "need" for a cane. We have done a log of our daughter banging into furniture, walls, missing steps, mis-stepping, etc since Aug 2008 but no one has bothered to listen to us. We also had an independent O&M assessment done at a convention for the blind and it indicates she needs to have cane techniques taught to her. This Assessment clearly pegged her!!!!
Our O&M is also legally blind and he is imposing his personal views of his vision onto our kids! And unfortunately our daughter is one of the kids suffering because of it. But the district RELIES on him as the primary O&M instructor. He can say no wrong!!! Our daughter is in a pre-K class and she had 22 boo-boos in 28 days of school (as of Oct 8). Is this normal? She has gotten 2 "more serious" boo-boos but no one wants to look at that -- district says she is "running" and that is why she is getting hurt -- and her running is a BEHAVIORAL problem according to the O&M.
I am glad that I read this email as this is exactly how we feel!!!! I am printing it to take with us -- as we have been told by our O&M that only an O&M can "prescribe" a cane! Oh yeah! THis is what we have to deal with.
Braille hasn't really even been approached but to mention it .... and we get the excuses "she has too much vision, she won't like it and it will be too slow for her." Needless to say, I havent even brought up the LAW yet! This has taken a "back seat" to the cane as she is not safe without it. And we do agree, she needs more instruction to be safer. But we can't get it.
Thank you for this thread ... I am glad that we are not the "only" ones feeling our daughter needs a cane and that we, as parents, have the right to put it in her hands.!
Doreen
--- On Mon, 10/19/09, H. Field <missheather at comcast.net> wrote:
From: H. Field <missheather at comcast.net>
Subject: Re: [blindkid] School cane O/M issues
To: "NFBnet Blind Kid Mailing List, (for parents of blind children)" <blindkid at nfbnet.org>
Date: Monday, October 19, 2009, 6:44 PM
Dear Lauren,
I would avoid a long, drawn out, back and forth between you and the
classroom teacher. I wouldn't speak on the phone. This is a boundaries
issue and it needs you to visit the teacher in person and discuss it
with her. Most classroom teachers are used to trusting the "blindness
professionals". Neither classroom teachers, and to a greater extent,
"blindness professionals" are used to parents being the experts on
their own blind children. In my extensive experience, as a blind child
and now a blind teacher, most blindness professionals are used to
telling parents what they think should be done, and having parents
trust them and do whatever they say.
I would go to the school before class one morning [or in the
afternoon if more convenient], as soon as possible, and have a quiet
word with the teacher. I would simply say that, as your child's
parent, you decide what is best for your child, even though there are
professionals who assist you to bring about the choices you have made.
You enrolled your child in this school to learn what they teach.
However, you supervise the homework and if there is some content or
activity with which you disagree, you will make the choice to opt your
child out of it.
The school has a nurse who knows about health and nutrition, but it is
you who decides what your child wears to keep warm, what she eats and
what medication she will, or will not take. Even though the nurse may
disagree, it is not her place to make decisions about Joli's health.
Similarly, you will decide what is best for your blind child in terms
of her safety, and how much you want her relying solely on her vision
and how much you want her to use a cane as well as her vision. The
mobility teacher may have her opinions, and you expect her to teach
your child techniques, methods etc. but you, as Joli's parent, will
decide which of those techniques, methods and tools your child will or
will not use and when she will or will not use them. You, not the
mobility teacher, are responsible for Joli's safety, development of
confidence and competence and you, not the mobility teacher, will make
those decisions. Therefore, you say politely to the classroom teacher,
this is not an orientation and mobility question, it's a parenting
question. You and Joli's father, as the parents, have decided that
Joli needs to take her cane with her everywhere she goes and use it.
So, we needn't worry about what the mobility teacher has to say.
If there is any argument, you call for an IEP meeting and get it
written in as part of the IEP. The professionals' behaviour is
outrageous, though not uncommon, and I wouldn't stand for it for one
second. Joli needs to be allowed to learn that she doesn't have to
sacrifice her safety, confidence and security so she can pretend that
her vision is reliable enough to be her only orientation and mobility
tool. Much of this behaviour on the part of the part of blindness
professionals is an unconscious desire on their part to have children
be as sighted as possible for as much time as possible and to use
vision rather than to look "blind" and use a cane. It is, however, the
worst message possible to be sending Joli.
I encourage you not to allow anyone to make any decisions for your
child. You, as her parent - educated in what's best for your child
with limited vision - are the only one who will be living with the
consequences of these decisions in ten or twenty years. Not her
teachers and instructors. Don't back down Lauren.
Best regards,
Heather Field
----- Original Message -----
From: "L W" <mama2sally at yahoo.com>
To: <blindkid at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Monday, October 19, 2009 4:38 PM
Subject: [blindkid] School cane O/M issues
Hi all. Thanks for the advice.Â
I wrote another note in Joli’s agenda book saying that Joli must
take her cane with her to all of her classes and that all of her
teachers need to be aware of this. Her main classroom teacher sent a
note back saying that she would discuss it with her O/M teacher. This
makes me mad because I don’t care if the O/M teacher thinks she
should have it or not. I think she should have it. I don’t want the
classroom teacher to defer to the O/M teacher on whether or not my
child should have her cane with her. Am I overstepping my bounds to
say “I am her mother, and if I say I say she must take her cane with
her everywhere she goes, then she must take it regardless of how the
O/M teacher feels about it.�?
Thanks,
Lauren Wibbe
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