[blindkid] Guide dogs for twelve year olds?

[Susan Harper]

     You hit on all the high points, which are being emotionally ready,
mature enough, and able to handle the commitment of a guide dog.  Age is a
number.  Remember only a few years ago people would be appalled if a 3 year
old had a white cane and now we give them to children as soon as or sooner
then when they begin walking.  It is not the age, it is the maturity and
readiness.

     We looked at helping dogs for our son who was a 12 year old teen with
no arms.  We got a ways into the process.  But part of that process is
determining readiness of both the dog and owner to be.  Our son opted out of
the program and now at 29, does not have a helping dog.  The demands on his
time were too great then and now.  Age is a number, not a measure of
maturity.

Blessings,
Sue H.

On Wed, Jan 20, 2010 at 8:22 AM, Heather <craney07 at rochester.rr.com> wrote:

> I just wanted to get some feedback on this from some parents of blind
> children and teens.  I, personally, was absolutely apalled to hear that a
> local guide dog school, not mentioning names *coughs* Freedom guide Dogs
> *Coughs* has preposed a program to place guide dogs with twelve year olds.
>  All of the other schools in the US accept teens no younger than sixteen or
> eighteen years of age, depending on the school, but twelve?  I am happy to
> note that at present, no O and M instructors, parents or twelve year olds
> have contacted the school to enquire about this program, but I am dreading
> the day.  This makes a mockery of those exceptional blind teens who are, at
> sixteen or seventeen, responsible enough, committed enough and have
> demanding enough schedules to properly care for, utalize and actually need a
> guide dog.  At what age would you consider supporting your teen in
> researching guide dog schools?  At what age would you support them actually
> submitting applications?  How old would you want your teen to be before
> actually being placed with a guide dog?  Do you think that you would have
> the blunt honesty to deny your support of your child getting a dog guide, if
> they were not emotionally, mentally, etc capable of utalizing a guide dog,
> at that time in their life?  Do you think that you could restrain yourself
> from taking care of the dog, interacting with the dog, or doing things that
> would undermine the ownership of the dog by your blind teen, acknowledging
> their sole ownership and responsibility for the dog, even if you, as their
> mother or father still have all other rule-making power in the house-hold?
>  Finally, would you ever, honestly let your twelve year old apply for a
> guide dog?  I just felt this should be brought to the list's attention.
>  Just me personally, I would not encourage my blind teen to start
> researching guide dog schools until age fourteen or fifteen, and I would not
> allow them to apply to schools until they were at least fifteen, and that is
> assuming that they are emotionally ready to deal with the demands of a guide
> dog, such as handeling an emergency vet situation, mentally able to care for
> the dog, such as, researching and selecting safe toys, effective medications
> and appropriate foods, mature enough to deal with the social implications,
> such as access issues, and that they actually had a need, not just a want
> for a guide dog, due to a challenging travel area or complex and demanding
> schedule of activities and classes.  Please share your thoughts.
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