[blparent] Help before 7:30 Arizona Time Please

[Tammy, Paul and Colyn]

Hi,

I would definitely keep her home today and also take away anything she 
really likes to do for the whole day like tv etc.  Because you've had 
trouble with her lying before and because nothing else seems to be working, 
this punishment needs to be big so it will hopefully teach her not to use 
things like razers and definitely not to lie to you or anybody else.

Tammy
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Gabe Vega" <theblindtech at gmail.com>
To: "'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Thursday, November 19, 2009 5:40 AM
Subject: [blparent] Help before 7:30 Arizona Time Please


> Background:
>
>
>
> My daughter has had a great interest is woman supplies even before needing
> them, she is 8.75 years old will be 9 in February. And she has been firmly
> told it isn't time, for razors, shaving, lotions, etc.
>
>
>
> Even before needing to ware bras I would catch her sneaking them from 
> school
> from other little girls to ware them and be cool I guess. She now wares a
> double a so that isn't an issue anymore so it's this razor thing.
>
>
>
> A couple of days ago I found a razor cap on the bathroom floor. Being I
> don't shave I instantly walked up to her asking her where the razor was 
> that
> I suspected she had and she very much denied even knowing of one's
> existences. I left it at that and we went on, although I always thought 
> she
> was just lying and I find it sooner or later, I always do and she always
> gets caught.
>
>
>
> So, tonight looking in the medicine cabinet looking for something for my
> ear, I found the razor, it's a disposable razor just like the one matching
> the cap I found on the floor a couple of days ago.
>
>
>
> My problem:
>
> I always let my daughter know why she is being punished, and then I asking
> her to fully explain to me so I know she understands why she is being
> punished.
>
>
>
> Today she is scheduled to go to a field trip to a farm and she is really
> looking forward to it. Should I keep her home for a form of punishment? 
> The
> entire school day is being spent at the farm so if I keep her home she 
> would
> be only missing out on the farm. Or do you recommend any other forms of
> punishment.
>
>
>
> Please do understand we have talked, over and over and over about wanting 
> to
> grow up too fast, it has nothing to do with her not knowing. Its her not
> listening, and lying about it when confronted with the evidence.
>
>
>
> Thanks
>
>
>
>
>
> Gabe Vega A+, Net+, ATACP
>
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