[blparent] dealing with the public

[Amy Murillo-Hicks]

Perhaps mentioning that he was over stimulated and all this attention is too 
much. I remember times where I was just on the other of firm from nice. 
It's a hard line to walk sometimes.
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Leslie Hamric" <lhamric930 at comcast.net>
To: "'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Monday, May 24, 2010 2:41 PM
Subject: [blparent] dealing with the public


> Hi group.  I wanted to tell you about a situation that happened yesterday.
> My husband and I were at a church doing and he had left me alone with the
> baby for a few minutes to go talk with some other people.  Michael started
> getting all fussy and crying and I immediately bent down to his carseat 
> and
> started rocking it like I normaly do.  Well, besides having this one lady
> ask me things like do you want me to hold him, I can try, I love babies, 
> do
> you need help rocking him, are you sure ou don't want me to hold him, etc.
> etc. I had three or 4 other ladies crowd around him, getting in his face,
> look for his pacifier which was right with my hand's reach,  and start
> talking to him which made him cry more.  Funny they all left me alone when
> my husband came back.  I know these women from choir and although they 
> were
> wel intentioned, I felt very uncomfortable.  They indirectly made me feel
> like I wasn't doing my job. I kept saying, no thanks, I have it and it 
> still
> didn't do any good. I'm wondering how have you all dealt with similar
> situations in the past?  My second question is, is there a such thing as
> being nice but firm when trying to get well-intentioned folks to back off?
> How else could I have handled it besides freezing up and feeling hurt?
> Thanks for any input.
>
> Leslie
>
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