[blparent] Whose rules should take precedence?

[Jo Elizabeth Pinto]

you only get pushed around if you allow yourself. its still off topic.

That's my point.  I was tired of Nanna trying to impose herself into my 
relationship with my daughter.  I wasn't going to be pushed around.

Grandma's house, grandma's rules. Yes I know she's your daughter, and if 
this was another strangers house your rules would stand. But in a normal 
house, with a grandma parent relationship grandmas house trumps all. It is 
her house, her roles, sorry you feel that way. Now you may always choose 
never to return to grandmas house, if you don't like the way grandma runs 
her house. But again, that is up to you. But this situation is all about 
respect, her grandma issued her decree, and you chose to try and overcome 
per. This is very disrespectful no matter what culture you're in, this will 
not stand in my house, and my daughters grandma would always overcut me as a 
sign of respect. Right or wrong. So please, take it for what it is take your 
losses and make a decision, you either like the other situations you have 
been with grandma, and this is a small think you could get over. Or you 
could choose to not like it, her, or any future situation, and just never 
return to her house. Very simple, if you ask me.

Thank you for your opinion.  I asked because I wanted an answer.  I will 
consider what you said.  Maybe I was the one in the wrong; maybe I wasn't. 
I didn't grow up in a normal family, so that I wouldn't know about.  But I 
do still love Nanna, and I would never take her away from Sarah for 
something so small as a disagreement over lemon cake.  That much I'm sure 
of.

Jo Elizabeth