[blparent] Update on my daughter Ashlee

Mon Jan 28 21:18:08 UTC 2013

Well, having come in to the list at the end of this, I would like to
know did the state just take her kids away because and only because
she's blind?  None of my business I guess, but it would be good to no
the situation.  Being 7 months pregnant and totaly blind, this
situation keeps me up for hours at night worrieing.

On 1/28/13, Tammy <tcl189 at rogers.com> wrote:
> Hi,
>
> I'd agree with this if Jes had emailed and said "hey list What would you do
>
> in this situation," or "What should I do here," but she didn't!  She said
> this is my decision just to update you all, and I think what she's looking
> for is support not a bunch of questions after the fact.  Rebecca may not
> have meant to come across as judgmental but that's how it sounded to me, and
>
> I, like you, Am entitled to my opinion.
>
> Tammy
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Dianna Alley
> Sent: Monday, January 28, 2013 1:56 PM
> To: Blind Parents Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [blparent] Update on my daughter Ashlee
>
> She did not judge her she asked her a question and I kind of wonder the
> same
> thing and you are right we are not in the situation and thank god for those
> that believe but when you decide to post on a list you are going to get
> varying degrees of feedback and that is not judging.  If one does not wish
> to get negative and positive feedback on what they are posting then they
> either have to not post it or send it to those they wish to know off list.
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Tammy" <tcl189 at rogers.com>
> To: "Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Monday, January 28, 2013 12:09 PM
> Subject: Re: [blparent] Update on my daughter Ashlee
>
>
>> Hi,
>>
>> Rebecca, this is none of your business, and how dare you judge her!  This
>>
>> decision is probably one of the hardest decision she's ever had to make
>> and you sit up there on your high horse and pretend you even have a clue
>> what you're talking about here?  You don't know what kind of hell she's
>> going through right now, and I'm thankful that you don't, but then how can
>>
>> you judge?  Do you know how hard it is to have a nursery all set up for
>> your baby to come home to  and have them not able to sleep, eat and play
>> there because some organization says you're not good enough?  Do you know
>>
>> how hard it is to have to see your child at appointed hours in someone
>> else's house and have your child look to someone else for necessities when
>>
>> you know that should be you?  Do you know the constantt pressure that's
>> put on parents of children in foster care to give up their children and
>> how hard it is for those parents to fight to get their children back?
>> Finally, do you know the pain of giving up your children to that same
>> system knowing that you, as a parent will never be the same again?    I'm
>>
>> not saying you have to support a decision like this one, but then why not
>>
>> just not say anything?  Sorry all, but I'm sickened by the below!!!
>>
>> Tammy
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: Pickrell, Rebecca M (TASC)
>> Sent: Monday, January 28, 2013 9:56 AM
>> To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Update on my daughter Ashlee
>>
>> Yes, this also made me very sad.
>> And, what about your daughter's father? He does have a say as this article
>>
>> will demonstrate.
>> http://gma.yahoo.com/sgt-reunited-baby-given-adoption-181449034--abc-news-topstories.html
>>
>> Also, do you have anybody in your corner? 16 months is a rough age for
>> many parents because your kid has the needs of a baby, but the mobility of
>>
>> a big kid. Combine these two with absolutely no impulse control and you
>> can have moments that make you wonder why you ever thought a child was a
>> good idea. These moments should pass though.
>> Have you spent enough time to know that you can care for your daughter
>> compitently?  Have you gotten your mental health checked? You've been on
>> this road for awhile, and you are giving up your rights at a difficult
>> time of year and at a difficult time in your child's development.  At 16
>> months, my daughter hadn't yet called me mommy. At 16 months, I was
>> convinced she was part cat, she only wanted me for food and when she
>> wanted something, not at all when I wanted to interact with her. By about
>>
>> 2, that turned around. She was calling me Mommy. She began to share
>> interests with me. By 3, she was introducing me to her own interests.
>> Yesterday we went to a museum that bored me to tears as a kid. We had a
>> wonderful time together.
>> You didn't ask, so I don't know why I'm sharing my oppinion.  It just
>> seems to be a short-sited decision with incomplete information. Also, you
>>
>> didn't mention the father, and I had just seen the article I posted.  You
>>
>> can do what you want, know that he also has the same right. If he hasn't
>> been given the oppertunity to make his wishes known, this ain't over yet.
>>
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: blparent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Gabe Vega
>>
>> Via Iphone4S
>> Sent: Sunday, January 27, 2013 11:26 AM
>> To: Blind Parents Mailing List
>> Cc: blparent at nfbnet.org
>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Update on my daughter Ashlee
>>
>>
>> Wow, I'll be honest. I've almost been to this point. When I fought for my
>>
>> daughter, the fight was overwhelming. I do understand, but I don't think
>> it would take something like this to ever make me reach a point. I support
>>
>> your decision, and maybe it was a losing battle to begin with. I'm sorry,
>>
>> I really am sorry.
>> Gabe Vega
>> Sent from my iPhone
>> (623) 565-9357
>>
>> On Jan 27, 2013, at 9:05 AM, Jess  <ashleejessandmark2012 at gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>>
>>> Ashlee is now almost. Sixteen months. She crawling. She recently just
>>> started walking.  She's already showing interest in potty-training. I've
>>>
>>> made the decision to surrender my parental rights because I know that
>>> she's safe with the foster family. And,I just want all the court stuff to
>>>
>>> be done.
>>> Sent from Samsung mobile
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