[blparent] behavior problems with our 4 year old

[Judy Jones]

It's the context that makes it either harsh or loving.  That is also going 
to depend on the age of the child and their understanding.  I believe 
children should be punished only for what they are accountable for.  For 
instance, if they have unknowingly done something wrong, regardless what 
age, if it is an honest mistake, (and that happens to us adults as well), 
too, they should be gently guided in the way they understand.  But when a 
child willfully disobeys, knowing what is expected, but makes that conscious 
decision to be willful, that is when the stricter discipline should come 
into play.  Willful disobedience is the marker here.

Judy


-----Original Message----- 
From: Rob Kaiser via BlParent
Sent: Tuesday, March 29, 2016 7:15 PM
To: 'Blind Parents Mailing List'
Cc: Rob Kaiser
Subject: Re: [blparent] behavior problems with our 4 year old

When I was growing up, & if I did something bad, my parents would send me to
bed without supper. That, in this day & age, could be construed as too
harsh.

Rob Kaiser
Email;
rcubfank at sbcglobal.net

-----Original Message-----
From: BlParent [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Jodie and
Kahlan via BlParent
Sent: Tuesday, March 29, 2016 5:38 PM
To: blparent at nfbnet.org
Cc: Jodie and Kahlan <motherconfessor at samobile.net>
Subject: Re: [blparent] behavior problems with our 4 year old

Lol Judy, it's funny that you mentioned counting to three beccause tonight
she actually did wait until 2.9999. I told her if she wanted her bike back
tomorrow she had to go to bed with no arguing or stalling tonight. She took
as much time as I would allow her to brush her teeth and still tried to take
her own sweet time. I told her she wasn't getting her bike back if she
wasn't out of the bathroom by the time I counted to three. I heard her run
past me just as I said three, so she doesn't get her bike back tomorrow. She
will learn natural consequences if it kills me!

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