[Ct-nfb] Happy Thanksgiving
Esther Levegnale
elevegnale at sbcglobal.net
Sat Nov 26 23:28:32 UTC 2016
Hi, Eileen!
Yes, voice inflections say a lot as well, and it's true that it's not what they say, but how they say it. I totally agree with you.
Esther
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> On Nov 26, 2016, at 1:54 PM, stanley torow via CT-NFB <ct-nfb at nfbnet.org> wrote:
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> thank you Esther. i was very helpful. some times it's not what they say but the tone of their voice.
> Eileen
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>
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> On Sat, Nov 26, 2016 at 11:45 AM, Esther Levegnale via CT-NFB wrote:
>
> Hi, Eileen and Everyone!
>
> Yes, it could be very demeaning when people treat you like a child. My relatives are okay with me, but I have more trouble with strangers. For example, one time my cousin and I were in Costco and we were sampling different foods. There was one particular item that had a toothpick in it and the person handing out the food said to my cousin, "Tell her there's a toothpick in it," to which I replied, "You already did, mam." I had a slight smile on my face when I said this, but it's very degrading when people speak to anyone this way. Then when a friend tries to tell a waitress or waiter what I want, I interrupt her and tell them myself. Then when the waiter goes away, I just tell them to please not speak for me, but I try to tell them in a nice tone. They understand and apologize profusely and realize how wrong they were. I, of course, accept their apology and move on.
>
> There's a way to be assertive and be nice about it, but if they persist, then you have to be more firm with these people. There's a saying which is "You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar."
>
> Anyway, that's my take on the situation and hope this helps you.
>
> Esther
>
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>> On Nov 26, 2016, at 10:37 AM, stanley torow via CT-NFB <ct-nfb at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>
>> thanks Gary.
>> does anyone else have this problem? and how do they handle it without sounding nasty.
>> Eileen
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>> On Sat, Nov 26, 2016 at 10:13 AM, Gary Allen via CT-NFB wrote:
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>> You should no reason for that.
>>
>>> On Sat, Nov 26, 2016 at 10:05 AM stanley torow via CT-NFB <ct-nfb at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>> i am glad everyone had a good holiday. we did, but i find that relatives that don't see me too often, treat me like a child, just because i don't have perfect vision. wish i could speak up. nest year i will.
>>> Eileen Torow
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> On Fri, Nov 25, 2016 at 09:25 AM, Mary Silverberg via CT-NFB wrote:
>>>
>>> Gary & All,
>>> Thanks for all the good Thanksgiving wishes. Joe & I also had a lovely day yesterday with family in New Jersey. We are all very fortunate to have much to eat, & friends and family to share.
>>> Mary
>>>
>>> On Thu, Nov 24, 2016 at 11:26 PM, Gary Allen via CT-NFB <ct-nfb at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>> I spent the day with Rob Palaski
>>> and his family. I had a great time, and the goid was really good also.
>>>
>>> On Thu, Nov 24, 2016 at 10:04 PM Nathanael T. Wales via CT-NFB <ct-nfb at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>> Gary and Esther,
>>>
>>> Thank you both very much for the Thanksgiving wishes to all of us. I too,
>>> along with my wife and son, spent it with family and had a great time.
>>>
>>> Have a great evening,
>>> Nathanael
>>>
>>>
>>> -----Original Message-----
>>> From: CT-NFB [mailto:ct-nfb-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Esther
>>> Levegnale via CT-NFB
>>> Sent: Thursday, November 24, 2016 9:05 PM
>>> To: NFB of Connecticut Mailing List
>>> Cc: Esther Levegnale
>>> Subject: Re: [Ct-nfb] Happy Thanksgiving
>>>
>>> Hi, Gary!
>>>
>>> Thanks for the Thanksgiving wishes. Mine was great and I spent it with a
>>> cousin and her family. We had quite a crowd and wonderful food. Hope yours
>>> and everyone else's was good too.
>>>
>>> Take care.
>>>
>>> Esther
>>>
>>> Sent From Esther's Amazing and Awesome iPhone 7+!
>>>
>>> > On Nov 24, 2016, at 11:04 AM, Gary Allen via CT-NFB <ct-nfb at nfbnet.org>
>>> wrote:
>>> >
>>> > Hello, Fellow Federationists:
>>> >
>>> > I hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving. I hope everyone has the
>>> opportunity to spend time with the ones that they care about the most.
>>> >
>>> > Sincerely,
>>> >
>>> > Gary Allen
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