[Faith-talk] thanks...regarding online dating.

Julie McGinnity kaybaycar at gmail.com
Fri Feb 7 17:13:51 UTC 2014


Hi Amy,

I grew up in STL, so it's neat that you're not too far away from where
I lived until last year.  I agree with Debbie's suggestions.  Also,
have you contacted the affiliate in Illinois?  Maybe they have some
suggestions or can help you with job leads in a larger city where you
can build up some savings and then pursue your original dream.  I will
try to think of other suggestions.

On 2/7/14, Andrew <andrewjedg at gmail.com> wrote:
> hi amy as far as bible studies and things go  I know it is back to
> online but   reckommend a safe site ran by tim snider  and it is a
> good community of believers  and things but you would have to have a
> mike. but it is totally free to join and just maybe you would be
> pleasantly surprised how kind it is. hear is the site  www.iccsite.com
>  you could very least joine theemail gro upto get an idea what icc is
> like and what it is about.
>  that is my suggestion
>
> On 2/7/14, Debby Phillips <semisweetdebby at gmail.com> wrote:
>> Hi, I'm hoping to be helpful here, not nosy or interfering. I have a
>> couple
>> suggestions. One is probably extreme, and maybe you wouldn't want to do
>> it,
>> and the other is less so. My first suggestion is !see if you can get your
>> case opened again with rehab, or services for the blind or whatever it's
>> called in your state. Second, look at some other possibilities of things
>> you
>> would like to do. I, I went that path and was basically shut down, which
>> is
>> when I decided to go to the Colorado Center forthe Blind. If you don't
>> feel
>> that you have the training for some other job, ask if you can go to
>> either
>> your state's training center, or fight to go to one of the three NFB
>> centers. My second suggestion is less extreme. I know you go to church
>> with
>> your parents, but you don't have to continue to do that. Talk to the
>> pastor
>> and see if there are possible rides, and if you might get rides to Sunday
>> school and other activities. And just because you live with your parents
>> doesn't mean you have to go to that church. Look in your town for other
>> churches if you don't get some satisfaction from your current pastor with
>> help to get to other activities. Sometimes we have to take steps (after
>> praying about what steps to take of course).    Blessings,    Debby
>>
>> Sent from my iPhone
>>
>>> On Feb 7, 2014, at 1:23 AM, Amy Ragain
>>> <belovedconsecrated2god at gmail.com>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>> hi everyone.
>>>
>>> thank you for all your thoughts and opinions about online dating.
>>> sorry it took so long for me to reply. I have been very busy these last
>>> few days...
>>> it sounds like you guys are all split on the subject.
>>> I don't remember who said it so I'm sorry but I agree with you about it
>>> being hard for us to get to places like church where we can meet people.
>>> :(
>>> I live in a small town in IL near saint Louis MO. I have to ride to
>>> church
>>> with my family and we only go to church on sunday morning. no sunday
>>> school or small groups, or wednesday night services...
>>> there are no buses that come to this town. well, ok. there is 1. it
>>> comes
>>> at 6am and returns around 6PM. there is a taxi like service for disabled
>>> people but it only takes people to a work place. no church or
>>> recreational
>>> places...
>>> I have thought of and feared all of the things you guys have mentioned
>>> and
>>> that has been what has kept me from joining an online dating site along
>>> with being unsure as I have said if christians should do so...
>>> I guess I should just be happy where I'm at...but sometimes I just feel
>>> so
>>> stuck if you know what I mean...
>>> I apply for jobs but can't get them because I don't have enough
>>> training.
>>> I went to college to be a children's pastor but churches won't higher a
>>> blind person because the parents in the churches don't believe blind
>>> people can take care of children. And I am stuck living at home with my
>>> parents because without a job I can't aford to get an appartment closer
>>> to
>>> a good bus system... :(
>>> sorry to vent but that's just how I'm feeling right now... :(
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-- 
Julie McG
National Association of Guide dog Users board member,  National
Federation of the Blind performing arts division secretary,
Missouri Association of Guide dog Users President,
and Guiding Eyes for the Blind graduate 2008
"For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that
everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal
life."
John 3:16




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