[Faith-talk] For Shikha

[Debby Phillips]

Hi Shikha, I definitely understand being scared.  Don't get me 
wrong, I loved my dad (he has passed away), but we had definite 
disagreements about doctrine.  He once told me that I was stupid 
to believe in the TRINITY.  That hurt me very much, because 
nobody likes to be called names, especially by someone who is 
supposed to love and support them.  Arguing from a Biblical point 
of view didn't work, because he didn't believe the passages that 
I referred to were translated correctly, and even though I had 
people who know Greek explain to me, I wanted my dad's approval.  
But I would not compromise what I believe.  I protected myself by 
putting a hard shell around me and just would not allow my dad to 
pull me into discussions anymore.  But it was very difficult.  I 
think now that by putting that hard shell around myself, it 
prevented me from loving my dad like I should.  So yes, I 
understand how you might be scared to express your opinions.  But 
don't be so fearful that you are unable to love your family.  I'm 
not sure how to tell you not to be afraid, perhaps someone more 
articulate than I can do that.  But know that I totally 
understand what you are facing, (or at least somewhat), and I 
will pray for you.

Are you able to go to church while you are home for the summer? 
If so, take comfort in that, and try to be happy.    Blessings,    
Debby