[nabs-l] Social Stuff

[Jedi]

NABSters:

I try to be excessively careful when joking like that in case my 
friends actually think that's how they should interact with another 
blind person they might meet. After all, that's how this thread got 
started. One blind guy joked with a sighted friend that he could 
identify her by smell since her perfume is strong and unusual. As a 
result, she got it in her head that all blind people did this and thus 
stuck her wrist in front of my nose at first meeting with the 
invitation to become familiar with her scent.

Respectfully,
Jedi


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> Teal,
> Once again I find myself laughing at a comment in this thread because
> I've used that "I see with my hands" line when joking with someone. The
> thing is, you've gotta be careful who you say that too. Not because you
> might offend someone, I'm careful enough to avoid that. But because I've
> had them counter with, "That sounds like fun. Go ahead." They were
> joking of course. I think. But what do you say in response to something
> like that? LOL I'm not really expecting an answer to that by the way. I
> told you all about it so you could get some of the amusement I
> experienced remembering it.
> - --
> Those of you who think they know everything are very annoying to those
> of us who actually do.
> Joseph C. Lininger, <jbahm at pcdesk.net>
> Teal Bloodworth wrote:
>> just be sturn almost stubborn in asking questions and dont try to fit in
>> just be yourself. college is much easier but its not. I was friends with
>> everybody that i went to highschool with before my car accident that led
>> to my vision loss and it was awkward because they didnt know how to act.
>> I thought college would be easier and it is but it isnt. Harder course
>> work but easier social interaction because with the diversity in my
>> school, it was a very openminded and nonjudge mental and no one that i
>> went to highschool went to this college which was weird because it was
>> 45 minutes away from my highschool.

>>> From a personal view there is not much difference in going with those who
>> are sighted or those who are not. Everyone will have different
>> personalities that you will either like or not like. In a laughing
>> matter i had a good pick up line..."i cant see so i have to see with my
>> hands." I would never use that but i would tell people that if they were
>> friends to kid with them.

>> Do you have similar feelings in your environment?

>>            -Teal
>> ----- Original Message ----- From: "Alberto Arreola"
>> <alberto.2500 at gmail.com>
>> To: "'National Association of Blind Students mailing list'"
>> <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
>> Sent: Friday, September 25, 2009 9:09 AM
>> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Social Stuff


>>> That goes for me.  I was the only blind student in my hight school,
>>> and I'm
>>> now the only blind student at the university I go to.

>>> -----Original Message-----
>>> From: nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
>>> Behalf
>>> Of Teal Bloodworth
>>> Sent: Thursday, September 24, 2009 7:40 PM
>>> To: National Association of Blind Students mailing list
>>> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Social Stuff

>>> that must be nice for all of you. in highschool i was the first and only
>>> totally blind person, at my community college same and at the four year
>>> university same. I guess i dont really have any blind friends where i
>>> live
>>> because there is no one my age.

>>>            -Teal
>>> ----- Original Message ----- From: "Jedi" <loneblindjedi at samobile.net>
>>> To: <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
>>> Sent: Thursday, September 24, 2009 8:10 PM
>>> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Social Stuff


>>>> Mark,

>>>> I also find that many of my friends are blind. However, many of my blind
>>>> friends are struggling with their blindness more than I seem to be. That
>>>> is to say that some of them deny their blindness while others live the
>>>> stereotypes. Some of my best friends are sighted.

>>>> I haven't noticed a remarkable difference between how my sighted friends
>>>> treat me versus how my blind friends treat me. I think what makes the
>>>> difference is philosophical understanding of blindness, not visual
>>>> acuity.

>>>> Respectfully Submitted
>>>> Original message:
>>>>> Reading this thread makes me think; most of my closest friends are also
>>>>> blind. This is not to say that I don't have sighted friends, I have
>>>>> lots
>>>>> of friends that are sighted. I go to a mainstream school and otherwise
>>>>> fully participate in everything that my sighted friends do. It just
>>>>> seems

>>>>> like my sighted colleagues still treat me differently than they would
>>>>> treat another sighted classmate. It's nothing that I can put my finger
>>>>> on, just an impression I get. Do any of you also find this to be true?



>>>>> Also do you find that it is easier to make friends with blind people
>>>>> than

>>>>> sighted people? I think it is, because you don't have to deal with the
>>>>> blindness thing. I mean you don't have to teach them that just because
>>>>> your eyes don't work it doesn't make you drastically different than
>>>>> anyone else.



>>>>> I would appreciate your thoughts,



>>>>> Mark
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